Chapter One - What Is A Cuckold?
Chapter Two - What Cuckolds Want
Chapter Three - What Cuckolding Wives Want
Chapter Four - The Tall Dark Stranger Syndrome
Chapter Five - Strict Wives-More than A Dose of Humiliation
Chapter Six - Orgasm Denial and Chastity
Chapter Seven - Sissification
Chapter Eight - What Bulls (Lovers, Studs, Masters, Real Men) Want
Chapter Nine - Is Bigger Better?
Chapter Ten - Is More Merrier?
Chapter Eleven - Is Black Sweeter?
Chapter Twelve - Having Lover's Baby
Chapter Thirteen - Love and Jealousy
Chapter Fourteen - There's No Turning Back

Chapter 14

There's No Turning Back

"I don't think I could ever stop being a cuckolding wife-even if my husband asked me to. The thought of getting fucked by other men will never be a thing of the past for me." (cuckolding wife)

"All these clues-the universality of infidelity, men's sexual jealousy, and the hallmarks of sperm competition-point to a disturbing answer to the question of ancestral woman's sexual strategies. They reveal the persistent expression of women's passion for men other than their husbands, a phenomenon that must have occurred repeatedly over the long course of human evolution. Modern women have inherited this passion from their ancestral mothers." (The Dangerous Passion, David Buss)

Cuckold couples are only doing openly what females have done covertly for millions of years-getting the best of both worlds. It is natural for cuckold hubbies to become sexually aroused when their wives flirt with and fuck other men. It is also natural for wives to seek sexual gratification from men who are sexually superior to their husbands. Where cuckold husbands differ is in their ability to tolerate the "humiliation" of their wife's infidelity and to suppress and/or channel their jealousy into increased commitment and love for their wife, as opposed to violence and unfaithfulness. And cuckolding wives, often skeptical at first, learn to appreciate their husband's tolerance of their infidelity and acceptance of their sexually superior Lovers.

Some women, however, may take time to get over their doubts and feelings of guilt imposed by our modern cultural standards. One cuckold hubby said his Sunday-school-teaching wife went through cycles of "enthusiastically fucking many other men," and then "resolving to reform Herself and be a faithful wife." However, after doing this for about 12 years She "got over the hump" and "reconciled Herself to a sexually unfaithful lifestyle." Since then, he says, "She has never been without boyfriends-usually more than one at a time,"-and that She has "never looked back."

Once over that hump it's all downhill with no turning back. While many cuckolding wives say that their hubbies initially talked them into it, most say they now do it for themselves. As one woman said about Her Lover: "he makes my pussy hot, wet, and feel soooo good." It is very unlikely-most say never-that they would go back to their old vanilla relationship. Most cuckold hubbies realize that after their wife is hooked that there is no turning back and that it is no longer up to them, it is up to their wife. Wives become sexually free and empowered; they feel beautiful and love the attention they get from their Lovers. Once they experience the pleasures of cuckolding, there is no way they are going back to their boring "vanilla" relationship.

Once into cuckolding, a wife's attitude about Herself and about sex in general may undergo a drastic change. One cuckoldress (Holly), for example, says that She has noticed a number of reversals in Her thinking. She says,

* Sex used to be "something of an obligation," now sex is "my passion."
* "Sex with strangers-a Black one at that, was unthinkable. Now I crave it."
* "Penis size was never particularly interesting to me; now it's very important."
* "Semen used to be a messy by product; now it's an all-important symbol of my power to affect men."
* "I used to worry about having a dainty and tight vagina; now I purposely choose bulls with penises that stretch me and prefer sex [with hubby] after one or more bulls have cum inside me, offering him a very loose and slippery experience."

While many "normal" people may think that the cuckold lifestyle is a strange one, there are many benefits. One hubby whose wife has been cuckolding him for over 20 years says that "She realizes that it is because of my love for Her that She can experience the variety of sexual relationships that She has had," and that "leaving me for one of Her Lovers would probably result in a life of monogamy for Her-something that is unthinkable." Now, because of Her many Lovers, he says that She keeps Her figure "trim and attractive," is "always well dressed" and also well stocked with "sexy, romantic lingerie." He also says that She has a "pleasant disposition and personality," a "more rounded knowledge of the world," and is a "wonderful sex partner." From his point of view, he asks, "Who would not want such a woman?"

Another hubby said that his wife no longer has to make a trade-off between "fulfilling emotional relationship" or "good sex"-the cuckold lifestyle gives Her both.

Additional reasons for keeping a cuckold hubby were explained by one cuckolding wife. When asked why She stays with Her wimpy submissive hubby who is incapable of sexually satisfying Her, She said, "He does as he is told, he is a good provider, an available babysitter when I go out on dates, and he is good around the house. Why get rid of him?" She says that She has not allowed him to fuck Her for years and has become quite dominant toward him taking his humiliation and emasculation to new levels, including dropping him off at a gay spa so he can practice his cock sucking while She shops.

Cuckolding, like a drug, is hard to stop and tends to escalate once it's started. One cuckold hubby said that his cuckold obsession grows over time "like a passion gone out of control." He says "It's like an addiction: you want to go further and further." He says that he first wanted to be submissive to his wife, and then to Her Lover, then after that, "you want Her to have many Lovers and to submit to those." Another cuckold hubby warns, "Be sure you want what you're asking for." He says that he got his wish when his hot-looking wife had Her first Black Lover at a swing club. He says since that time She has had many well-hung Lovers-all Black-and even though he tries to stop it, he gets so turned on "in the strangest most compelling way" that he finds himself encouraging Her. He says that he easily gives in when She tells him that She wants to have sex with another man She has found. "Now," he says, "my only source of sexual contact with Her is servicing Her well-used pussy when She comes home, and occasionally-once a week-masturbating."

And then there are the compromising pictures. One cuckold hubby who says he has "always been extremely heterosexual," got turned on when his wife talked him into sucking Her Black Lover's cock. He says, "She took a of pictures of me sucking his cock and even pictures of his cum dripping out of the corners of my mouth." This turned him on so much that he says, "My dick exploded without even touching it."

Cuckolds who watch their wife in the throes of uninhibited passion with another man develop a deeper understanding of Her sexual needs. One cuckold hubby, after watching his wife get fucked for over an hour by a Bull with an 8.5" cock that he "pistoned in and out of Her pussy," said, "I will leave the real fucking of my wife for the Real Men." He realized that his sexual performance-barely moving and desperately trying not to cum"-plus his much smaller 4.5" cock paled in comparison to that of his wife's Lover. He now wears panties and accepts his role as a "cuckold sissy with a little cock." He says, "I have learned to enjoy being a cuckolded wimp. This is my true role. Nature has dictated that I serve my wife in a non-sexual manner while She enjoys Real Men."

One wife who dated other men on "girl's night out" found that things changed drastically after Her husband asked Her into having sex with a Black stud on Her birthday while he watched. The experience was so hot She said, "I really enjoyed being an exhibitionist for my voyeur husband" and that "I knew things would never be the same between us." She said that Her hubby could see how inadequate he was 'now that he had seen how much I had enjoyed it with a Real Man." As sometimes happens, this led to Her taking a dominant role and hubby taking a submissive role. Her hubby said he would be "perfectly happy" getting his relief through masturbation and watching Her "being fucked by superior Black males." She says, "we could not only have a happy marriage, but a satisfying sex life too." Her dominance now includes face-sitting and making him wear panties.

One wife said that She doesn't understand why Her hubby likes Her to cuckold him, but once She realized that he enjoyed humiliation, She found that She really enjoyed seeing him humiliated and that She "fantasizes about it all the time now." Cuckolding sometimes changes the balance of marital equality. One wife says, "Now that I have cucked him many times, I know that I will never settle for his meager efforts, and he knows that too." She says that "I view him as less of a man and less of an equal that I did before I invited other men to fulfill his husbandly role and fuck me." She says She still loves him and that he is a "good partner in social events," a "super wage earner," and a "future partner in raising my children," however, She says, "I have relegated him to supervised masturbation." She says, "once some other man plants his seed in a wife's adulterous cunt," the cucked hubby's "secondary status pretty much becomes permanent." Seeing Her husband being submissive to Her Lovers and dressing feminine changes Her former view of Her husband as a masculine man "on a permanent basis." She says She will not leave him, but will treat him differently from now on.

Cuckoldress profile

So, what are the characteristics of a typical cuckolding wife? According to one poll, most cuckolding wives:

* Still love their hubby (95%)
* Do not fall in love with their Lovers (84%)
* Meet their Lovers at the wife's home (80%)
* Got into the cuckolding lifestyle after marrying their current hubby (77%)
* Want just sex, not romance with their Lovers (73%)
* Tell their hubby up front before having sex with a new Lover (73%)
* Do not allow their hubby to veto new Lovers (73%)
* Enjoy humiliating their cuckold hubby (73%)
* Flirt with other men and allow them to kiss them and more in front of hubby (71%)
* Allow hubby to be present when they have sex with their Lovers (71%)
* Who meet their Lovers without hubby give him the details of what happened (65%)
* Say their hubby enjoys being humiliated (65%)
* Tell their hubby about their Lovers (61%)
* Allow their hubbies to have sexual activity (61%)-Oral only (31%), masturbation (55%), intercourse with the wife (63%)
* Are submissive to their Lovers (55%), but many (44%), are dominant over their hubby
* Have Lovers who are strangers (55%)-and many (51%) meet new Lovers in public places,
* Like to have more than one ongoing relationship (51%)

Cuckold profile

In another poll, most cuckolds say,

* "If I could do it over, I'd want to be a cuckold again!" (94%)
* "I am made or sometimes made to provide a sexual service to the Bull" (69%)
* "S&M is part of how I'm treated" (64%)
* "I am allowed or sometimes allowed intercourse with my wife" (60%)
* "My sexual performance in intercourse is good" (51%). The rest say, say, "My sexual performance in intercourse is poor" (39%), and "I can't perform in sexual intercourse, or only barely" (11%)
* "I am not kept in a chastity device" (72%) (This means that 18% are)

As we enter what some have called "The Age of Women", the role of men is being questioned. Are high-testosterone men-often prone to violence-obsolete in our modern world? Have we lost our harmony with nature as a result of excessive male domination? Are men destroying our species? Are men really necessary? Perhaps as a sign of the times, a new kind of man may be emerging: one who is more understanding and tolerant of his wife's needs and desires-especially sexual. These men-referred to as cuckolds-are an enigma even to themselves, but could they be the wave of the future? Could it be that cuckolds, a narrowly defined fetish now, are on the leading edge of what our species ultimately needs to survive? According to one dominant woman, "A man who is gifted in performing oral worship on a woman and who can do household chores is the kind of husband future generations of women will be looking for." And, according to another, "Men should be dominated and controlled for the betterment of the world. Look what is going on in the world today-men are responsible for it."

Times are changing, but one thing seems sure: Once you agree to cuckolding, there is no turning back!

From the ads:

The following are edited ad excerpts from cuckolds and wives who don't want to turn back.

Ex cuckold wants to be cuckold again. I will be submissive and absolutely faithful while there are no restrictions on you. I will provide you with a loving safe financially secure environment and will please you and assist you whenever you ask. I will help you dress for dates with Real Men and will perform clean-up duties afterwards. I love public and private humiliation and will sleep outside the bedroom door while you entertain your Lover(s)...

I want to be the wimp who is humiliated, serves you and your Black Lovers, and cleans you both up. I will support you, obey all your commands, and be completely faithful. My little white dick will never enter your pussy, which is reserved for Black dicks only. Have house with pool and plenty of Black friends for right young attractive Black cock slut...This is the lifestyle I crave...

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I seek a stable marriage with an attractive cuckold who likes to watch a woman be fully satisfied and submissive to Black men. You will provide a stable, secure home life for myself and my biracial kids...

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Your place is to be my cuckold husband and to support us in our quest for serving strong dominant men. I can be the perfect PTA and doting wife in public and the perfect untamed lusting slut in the bedroom...

I want a complete cuckold husband who wants his wife to have it all. I think we both know what "having it all" means: a happy marriage and Black Lovers...

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Sexy woman wants to settle down and control the sex life of a cuckold of my own who adores me and is always available to me. I like men who will suck a large cock before it goes inside me and clean up afterwards ...

Pretty, white female looking for attractive white cuckold wimp to setup dates and watch me have sex with one or more Black men while I degrade and humiliate him...

As my cuckold hubby you will allow me to fuck Black men and help me seduce them by doing whatever I say. You will even find them for me. You must be bi and have no problem being an oral slave, among other things, to me and my Black Lovers. You will film, take pictures, serve drinks, and clean up afterwards...

I need a doting white cuckold hubby to totally support me and spoil me as a stay-at-home total Black cock whore. Bring me all the Black cock I can handle-and that's quite a bit...

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Married white female seeks a boyfriend for intimate dating relationship-movies, dinners, etc.-not just no-strings sex. The point is to date and give my intimacy to the boyfriend and not my cuckold husband. If you enjoy taunting my husband, even better!...

Shy young submissive wife needs regular training as a Black Master's cum slut. I am green-eyed all natural long-haired blonde looking for tall extremely attractive muscular football player type with shaved head and a 10" thick heavy cumming cock for doing me bareback in every hole. Like oral (I swallow) anal, double penetration, public sex, nightclub sex, car sex, sex with Master's friends, the right man will own me completely and I will do any thing for him Hubby may attend, but he is not allowed to interfere...

Sexy, slim, long-legged blonde is a total Black cock pleasure machine. Needs to be stretched and fucked and filled with cum regularly. Hubby is fully trained submissive cuckold who only watches if allowed, masturbates only and cleans up afterwards...

Natural blonde seeks tall, fit, well-hung (over 8 inches) good-looking assertive hard-fucking Black Lover for regular sex. Hubby has no say and is totally submissive and chastised...

From the polls:

CUCKOLDS: WHOSE IDEA WAS IT FOR YOU TO BE A CUCKOLD?

Most cucks (56%) said it was their idea for them to be a cuckold, but many (36%) said it was a joint decision, with some (11%) saying it was their wife's idea.

WIVES: HAVING CUCKOLDED YOUR HUSBAND, HOW LIKELY ARE YOU TO GO BACK TO A VANILLA RELATIONSHIP?

None (0%) of the wives who have tasted the fruit of cuckolding said that they would like to go back to a vanilla relationship. In fact, most said they would "never" (36%) or "not likely" (28%) go back to the way things were. Many (28%) "love the fact that it's my choice."

CUCKOLDS: IF YOU COULD DO IT OVER WOULD YOU WANT TO BE A CUCKOLD AGAIN?

As a very positive endorsement of the sweetness of the cuckold lifestyle, those currently being cuckolded who answered this question were in almost unanimous agreement (94%) that they would want to be cuckolds again. As further confirmation, of those who weren't currently being cuckolded, but had been in the past, all (100%) unanimously said they wanted to be a cuckold again.

CUCKOLDS: SINCE YOU HAVE BECOME A CUCKOLDED HUSBAND, HOW LIKELY ARE YOU TO RETURN TO A NORMAL RELATIONSHIP?

As further affirmation, none (0%) of the cucks in this poll wanted to return to a normal relationship either. Many cucks (46%) realize that "its not my choice" for them to return to their "normal" relationship, they said, "ask my wife." Those who expressed an opinion said "I don't want to change anything," (21%), turning back would "never" (18%) or "not likely" (14%) ever happen.

WIVES: SHOULD CUCKOLDING BE PART OF A FEMDOM RELATIONSHIP?

Most (84%) say yes, that cuckolding should be integral to a Femdom relationship. The most frequent reason (63%) given is that "it is important training for the male to make him appreciate his Mistress more," followed by (47%) saying, "it empowers and builds confidence in the Mistress." Only a few (16%) said no, "the best Femdom relationships are strictly monogamous."

SADLY THIS BRINGS MARCUS'S REPORT TO AN END!

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