Chapter One - What Is A Cuckold?
Chapter Two - What Cuckolds Want
Chapter Three - What Cuckolding Wives Want
Chapter Four - The Tall Dark Stranger Syndrome
Chapter Five - Strict Wives-More than A Dose of Humiliation
Chapter Six - Orgasm Denial and Chastity
Chapter Seven - Sissification
Chapter Eight - What Bulls (Lovers, Studs, Masters, Real Men) Want
Chapter Nine - Is Bigger Better?
Chapter Ten - Is More Merrier?
Chapter Eleven - Is Black Sweeter?
Chapter Twelve - Having Lover's Baby
Chapter Thirteen - Love and Jealousy
Chapter Fourteen - There's No Turning Back

Chapter 9

Is Bigger Better?

"I do not enjoy sex as much with men with little penises. I think we're just trying to make men feel better by saying size isn't important." (Maggie, in "Women's Sexuality," by Carol Ellison)

As mentioned before, not all cuckolds have a small cock, but cuckolding wives and their Lovers often center their humiliation of cuckold hubby on the size of his cock. If he truly does have a small cock-say less than 6"-it is not unusual to see a side-by-side picture of Her Lover's much larger and thicker "real man's" cock compared to cuckold hubbies "little boy's" cock. To rub it in She may talk about how "he touches me in places you never will," or, how She feels so "stretched" or "open" with Her Lover's bigger cock. She may refer to hubby's smaller cock as a "cockette" or a male "clitty"-especially if he is a sissy. And if Her Lover's larger cock gives Her orgasms, while hubbies smaller one doesn't, She may reduce the frequency or duration of intercourse with hubby-sometimes all the way to zero. If She does still have intercourse with him She may taunt him by saying things like "is it in yet?" or, "I can't really feel anything." Some cuckold hubbies are so turned on by this during sloppy seconds that they cum within 1 or 2 minutes, way too fast to give their wife an orgasm from intercourse like their Lovers can.

And women who receive orgasms from their Lovers want to fuck them again and again. According to results published in "The Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy" (Summer 1993), "A woman who achieves orgasm desires to have intercourse more often, to again achieve orgasm." This is an important overlooked reproductive purpose for women's orgasms. Orgasms drive women to have more sex, which has the evolutionary purpose of increasing the probability of having more offspring. In addition, researchers have recently discovered-and even recorded with a micro-camera-the woman's uterus dipping the cervix into the semen pool to "suck" it up during orgasm. (Is it any wonder that some wives are more likely to get pregnant by their Lovers, who give them orgasms during intercourse, than by the husbands, who often don't?)

Further, according to the study, men achieve orgasm through intercourse 97% of he time, while women only achieve orgasm 25% of the time through intercourse. It is not that women are incapable of achieving orgasm, however. The study showed that women orgasm 82% of the time from cunnilingus or from being masturbated by a male partner, and 98% of the time-the same as men during intercourse-by masturbating themselves. So, clearly orgasm is achievable for most women given proper stimulation. The question here is: do larger, thicker cocks promote more stimulation and therefore more female orgasms during intercourse?

Though the answer to this question in general is yes, there is a lot more involved than penis size when it comes to a woman's sexual satisfaction. For one, staying power is also important. Kinsey found that 75% of males achieved orgasm within 2 minutes of penetration (and, in the understatement of the century, noted that "this may be unsatisfactory to a wife"), while women took anywhere from 10-20 minutes to achieve orgasm from intercourse, if they did at all. With self-masturbation they could achieve orgasm within 4 minutes. Since a cuckolding wife's Lover often has more staying power and tends to spend more time, this could be another factor that makes a woman more likely to reach orgasm with Her Lover, than with a quicker-cumming hubby.

If women are so orgasmic, and orgasms serve an important purpose, then why do so few women have orgasm during intercourse? Is nature being cruel or could it be that there is a current mismatch between men and women when it comes to penis size and staying power? Could it be that sexual characteristics that have evolved over millions of years are no longer appropriate in today's world?

Dominant large-cocked men-a cuckold's dream?

How could this mismatch happen? As David Barash, Ph.D. and Judith Lipton, M.D., in "The Myth of Monogamy," describe,

"It is worth noting that dominant male animals are typically less rushed and more deliberate about sexual intercourse, whereas social subordinates tend to be harried and thus hurried." They point out that dominant males copulate in a more relaxed, more confident, more sexually-in-control manner and that as a result, females are more likely to orgasm from it. This would be especially true if the female liked the dominant male and wanted to have (perhaps subconsciously) sons like him-the "sexy son hypothesis."

Picture this scene taking place sometime in the formative Pleistocene era over a million years ago: A receptive female is down on all fours in a clearing emitting sexual sounds-moans and squeals-as a dominant Alpha male is taking his time and is proceeding in a deliberate way while taking Her "doggie style." The sounds and sights of sex have attracted a number of other males who are standing around watching, and are perhaps in the near vicinity listening. They are mostly non-dominant "Beta" males waiting their turn. The less dominant Beta males who are watching and listening must become quickly aroused and erect by this scene if they are to take their turn and compete with their sperm. When they do take their turn with the female they are constantly looking over their shoulder and must get their sperm in quickly before being shoved out of the way and displaced by another male.

Those who competed successfully and became our ancestors did just that-they got very turned on and delivered a lot of sperm quickly-becoming the first "2-minute" men. It should therefore not be surprising that most men today have such short staying power. According to David Friedman in "A Mind of Its Own-A Cultural History of the Penis,"

"The men who ejaculated fastest also had an edge in that prehistoric insemination contest. This was because of the very real chance that another male might pull him off that female and take his place inside Her before he released his sperm. Men who took too long could be eliminated from the competition completely. This suggests that every man now alive is descended from countless generations of well-hung, fast spurting men."

Alpha males, on the other hand, are more likely to be less hurried and to have more staying power, and those who successfully fended off the sperm competition may also have tended to have larger cocks. If so, their sperm was deposited closer to the egg and is more difficult to suck out or displace. According to Barash and Lipton, "A longer penis almost certainly gives its possessor's sperm an advantage, since they could be deposited closer to the cervix. This, in turn, would be especially significant, if sperm from more than one male are competing within a female, which, of course, is precisely what happens if the female mates with multiple males while ovulating." A female is more likely to orgasm from an Alpha male who takes his time, and therefore increases Her chances of getting pregnant by him. It could take as many as ten 2-minute Beta males one after another to achieve the same result.

There was no reason in this environment for females to have quick orgasms. In fact, females could continue to encourage sperm competition and even exercise some sexual selection by having "selected" orgasms with chosen males. She could at least confuse paternity and stand to gain attention and additional resources from multiple males.

In the event that the female in question "belonged to" one of the Beta males, then all the more reason that he should become aroused and get in there. As Barash and Lipton point out, "If 'your' woman may recently have been having sex with someone else, you would be well advised to have sex with Her too, and right away." "Sloppy seconds" would therefore become a natural turn-on-especially for Beta males.

(On a side note, some use this theory to explain why most men like pornography. Pictures and videos, or even audios, of seemingly sexual receptive women send a signal to the male brain that "a receptive female is nearby", which in turn results in arousal and erection to enable us to participate as our sperm competitive biology has evolved us to do over millions of years).

This would explain why men have the largest cocks of all the primates, but with relatively short staying power compared to a woman's sexual needs. So bigger may be better when it comes to getting pregnant, but does it necessarily mean that women prefer larger cocks for orgasms?

The answer to this is not simple since women have widely varying tastes, and it is difficult to make a sweeping generalization about penis size that applies to all women. Some women say size doesn't matter; some say it definitely does. To generalize that size doesn't matter, however, appears to ignore the two dimensions of size-length and thickness-as well as the extremes. Saying that size doesn't matter probably means that size doesn't matter as long as thickness and length are within a certain pleasurable range.

What cuckolding wives say

As one cuckoldress eloquently put it, "If penetrative sex matters, so does penis size. How can a woman possibly be indifferent to whether the penis inside Her is three or ten inches long?" She believes that "women ARE disappointed when they discover a guy has four inches or less." For Her then, the only room for debate is "what's too big and what's too small?" She concludes that width is more important than length, and that a man is best off having between seven and eight inches since "not every woman likes eight inches, and few can handle ten." This is because, as She says, "The most sensitive parts of a woman's vagina are near the entrance, and the feeling of being opened plays a greater part in a woman's sexual experience-and the thicker the penis, the wider it will be opened. A long penis will bang uncomfortably against the cervix if not used carefully."

Women who like bigger cocks report feeling more "deeply penetrated," more "opened up," more "filled up," more "stretched," and more stimulated visually and tactilely. One woman said that anything below 6" was a "severe disappointment," and that She "shudders in horror" at cocks as small as 4". Another said that She often has to ask Her husband to stop fucking Her with his 5" cock because She gets "so frustrated and positively ACHES" for the feelings that a bigger cock gives Her and says that Her husband "never gets there." Since She has now found larger cocks to satisfy Her, She says it would not bother Her if She never had to fuck Her husband again. Another wife says Her hubby has "an average size penis" and that it always satisfied Her "until I became exposed to some truly big dicks." Now, She says, "I will take a trophy-sized cock to his any day of the week." A cuckold hubby who has had a similar experience from the other side says, "I have a 4.5" cock when erect and though sex is good, She has never cum with it. Sometimes She says She can't feel anything."

Other comments from the Ellison survey ("Women's Sexuality") include:

"Penis size can make a difference for me. I feel more stimulation when there is more contact with the inner walls of my vagina. The entrance is where I feel most of the sensation, but the feeling of being filled is very satisfying to react with." (Emily)

"Sometimes it really feels nice because I feel filled up-sometimes it hurts. We have to work with positioning so that it's not uncomfortable. But then, for me, there's this feeling of being filled up, and it feels nice. I haven't had that feeling with men who have smaller penises." (Susan)

One wife said she had done her "wifely best" to put up with Her hubby's four inches for five years. Now, with her hubby's support she has a regular Lover who is quite a bit larger. She says, "I feel like a woman with my Lover. I feel like a wife with my husband. Suddenly I'm fucking a grown-up." Another wife says that She loves Her husband and his tender caresses and his "eating me out," but that "He is a lousy fuck." She says, "I can hardly feel his skinny 5" dick inside me and he doesn't last long, which frustrates me. I long to be fucked long and hard and his cock can't satisfy my pussy."

Based on Her experience, one woman says that a 4" cock "ain't never gonna visually turn a girl on." She goes on to say, "It falls out as soon as the energy levels go up," and, "Even simple things like rolling over and keeping it in don't work," and "It doesn't handle any position where there's more than an inch or so gap between the two of you." Basically, She says, "My idea of a good fuck is not somebody masturbating inside me-it rules out a lot of fun. Life is short and good sex should be part of it." Even giving a blowjob is problematic. She says, "There is not enough space for a girl to get Her hand and Her mouth on it-so why bother?"

For some, sex with a larger cock seems more primitive and animalistic. One cuckold said he was envious of his wife's Lover's ability to satisfy Her thoroughly without "having to establish an emotional foundation first." Another hubby, whose wife demands that he set Her up with a thick 8+" minimum Black cock says, "She gets nastier with a big cock and I love to watch Her roll Her eyes back and scream for more as She cums."

One wife craves large size so much that She masturbates in the shower with a 9"x7.5" lotion bottle. Her hubby says She brings herself to about 3 orgasms in 5 minutes. Another wife obsessed with size carries a cloth tape measure in Her purse to measure every man She is with. Her largest four cocks so far: 8.25"x6.5", 10"x7.75", 9.5"x7", and 11"x8"!

Why the preference for large size?

Perhaps this preference some women have for a larger size should not be too surprising. It is well known that humans have some of the largest penises in the animal kingdom. Some evolutionists believe that since we are one of the few animal species that often fucks for sheer pleasure, penis size has been selected by orgasm-seeking females who select males for size. According to Geoffry Miller, author of "The Mating Mind,"

"Human penises evolved as tactile stimulators for use in copulatory courtship. Female hominids may not have preferred thicker, longer, more flexible penises per se. They may simply have liked orgasms, and larger penises led to better orgasms by permitting more varied, exciting, and intimate copulatory positions. This rather contradicts the view of the penis as a symbol of male domination. If we were a species in which males dominated the sexual system, we would have one-inch penises like dominant gorillas. The large male penis is a product of female choice in evolution."

Researchers note that large penises provide more friction and rub more of a woman's sensitive clitoral shaft (a bundle of nerve fibers extending inside and along the top of the vagina), press Her "G-spot" better, which is located toward the front), reaches and rubs Her "epicenter" located toward the back near the cervix, and may go into the anterior fornix area (the "cul-de-sac") along side the cervix and rock the cervix to a deeply satisfying uterine orgasm. A larger penis also permits a wider variety of positions such as doggy style or woman on top where the penis penetrates deeply, presses at a variety of angles, and doesn't slip out as easily.

Anthropologists have found that penises and testes are larger in those species where there is a lot of competition for females by males. For example, the 450-pound silverback gorilla, despite being a hulk, has an average whopping 1"-1.5" penis and very small testes, not to mention the fact that he cums in about one minute. He so dominates his harem that he doesn't have to be concerned about being selected for penis size or having to have a high volume of sperm or long staying power to overcome competitive male sperm. As a result, his penis and testes size never evolved to larger sizes.

The size, as well as the design, of man's penis also suggests its use in the game of sperm competition. According to Barash and Lipton,

"The length of the penis as well as its enlarged bulbous tip suggests its role as a "suction piston" for sperm removal, a kind of natural "plumber's helper," designed to break up and possibly even remove coagulated sperm deposited by a previous male. This effect would be enhanced by the often vigorous thrusting that characterizes sexual intercourse and ejaculation among humans, and which is surprisingly difficult to explain or justify otherwise."

Some Evolutionists believe that penis thickness has also been selected by women who like orgasms. Helen Fisher in "The Anatomy of Sex," conjectures,

"Human penises are relatively thick and this may have emerged in human evolution simply because Lucy and Her girlfriends liked thick penises. A fat phallus distends the muscles of the outer third of the vaginal canal and pulls on the hood of the clitoris, creating exciting friction, making orgasm easier to achieve."

Others say it is the increasing size of the vagina over time that selects for larger, thicker cocks. Again, according to Barash and Lipton,

"For obvious reasons, vagina and penis are closely matched in all species, not unlike a lock and key. So human penis size may have been largely determined by the size of the vagina rather than by the dictates of sperm competition among males. Vagina size, in turn, seems to have been determined by the size of the infant-especially its head diameter-that must pass through in childbirth. As human head size increased during human evolution to favor large brains, so presumably did the size of the vagina. And this may in turn have generated pressure for the evolution of larger, more competitive penises as well."

Is there such a thing as too big? A woman's cervix at the back of the vagina is an immovable object and a large "cervix-banger" cock may hurt a woman rather than pleasure Her. Because of this factor, some anthropologists also believe that penis length has been selected by the depth of the female cervix. They use this to explain, for instance, why Black cocks are sometimes statistically, on average, slightly larger than white cocks-Black women have, on average, deeper cervixes-as well as why Asian cocks are the smallest-Asian women have the shallowest cervixes on average.

Whatever the reason, most agree that there are a number of factors that definitely give the edge to large penises. Some of these are: A man with a small penis can't A) be as effective in removing the sperm of prior males-especially if that sperm has been deposited deep by larger penises, B) deposit sperm as close to the cervix as a large penis to increase the probability of fertilization, or C) provide the pleasure and excitement-not to mention orgasms-that would keep the female from seeking out thicker, larger, penises for sexual pleasure She can't get at home.

There are also psychological factors at play. Many women find that bigger cocks are more visually stimulating and they often associate them with assertive, highly masculine, dominant "Alpha" males. Some women are sexually excited by submitting to such men-especially if they are good-looking and fit-even though they might themselves be dominant toward their more submissive smaller cocked hubbies.

Does this mean that smaller cocked men have little sexual value? Not necessarily. Even a 4-inch penis-though sexually unsatisfying to many women-is more than three times the size of a gorilla's tiny penis and is quite capable of impregnation. Since many women tend to select their future husbands based on other criteria than penis size: e.g., earnings potential, ambition, personality, attractiveness, etc., this allows the smaller cocked men-by human standards-to continue to marry and breed.

Small cocks may even benefit women in some ways. For example, the contrast in size that is sometimes present between hubby and Lover may also have a vaginal muscle toning benefit. One woman reported that going from Her husband's tiny penis to the large Black penis of Her Lover was "incredible." She claims that Her husband's tiny penis keeps Her tight for Her Lover and "is worth a month of Kegel exercises." Some women also prefer smaller cocks for anal sex.

However, when it comes to having exciting penetrative sex for orgasmic pleasure-especially extramarital sex-it is another story altogether. An examination of thousands of ads by wives looking for Lovers, revealed that virtually none asked for a small endowment. Overwhelmingly, "well-hung," "well endowed," "big cock," "thick cock," was almost unanimous with many specifying a minimum size that they would accept, typically in the 8" to 9" range or more, and at least 6" around. There is little doubt that they are looking for something bigger than their hubby has.

The effect of penis size on arousal

To understand how a large cock provides enhanced stimulation, it is necessary to explore some anatomy and look at the stages of sexual arousal. First to consider is that the depth of the vagina from the hymenal opening to the cervix at rest ranges from only 3" to 5" with the average closer to slightly over 3". The diameter, or width, is around 0.6" to 1". Given this small size one may wonder how a large cock, or even an average one for that matter, fits into the vagina at all. As a woman's level of sexual arousal goes up during the first stage known as the Excitement phase, vaginal lubrication occurs, the inner two-thirds of the vagina expands, the outer lips (labia majora) of the vulva open, the inner lips (labia minora) enlarge, and the clitoris swells and lengthens. The nipples may also become erect and other areas of the body become sensitive as well, opening up the woman for "full-body" loving..

During the next phase of arousal-the Plateau phase-the inner two-thirds of the vagina balloons (or "tents") up lifting the uterus and the cervix away from the end of the vagina, and the outer one-third of the vagina continues to swell, and the clitoris hides behind it's hood. The heart rate, breathing rate, and blood pressure rise and a red "sex flush" that looks like a rash appears on the abdomen, chest, neck, breast, or other areas of the body.

This level of high arousal combined with the start of penetration can cause the inner 2/3 of the vagina to expand and stretch in length from 150% to 200%, while the diameter increases to 2.3" to 2.5" in anticipation of the insertion of a large object. This "over expansion" makes it capable of accepting a large cock especially if introduced gradually with a lot of lubrication during a high state of arousal. This means a vagina that is 3" in length "at rest" might lengthen to 7.5-9" during gradual insertion. This is the range that is often cited by women as the "ideal" length without banging uncomfortably against the immovable cervix. Women with larger vaginas could potentially accept even longer and thicker cocks. Many women could accept fairly thick cocks up to 7" or more in girth. Perhaps this is why many women report an ideal cock size for achieving orgasm in the 7"-9" length range with about a 6"-6.5" girth (about 2" in diameter).

If a smaller size cock is inserted, a woman with good vaginal muscles will contract Her vagina around that cock after a minute or so of thrusting, which is why some say that size doesn't matter. (One trick a hubby with a small cock can use is to insert a finger until the vagina collapses around it so his cock will feel larger when inserted). However, the feelings reported by women of being "more open," "fully stretched," "filled up," "deeply penetrated" fizzle out more quickly with a small cock. One woman reported that She feels Her husband's 4.5" cock as it enters Her, but the sensation "dwindles as things heat up. " The larger cock also seems to result in quicker orgasms-sometimes on entry-that are more intense and that occur in multiple waves with continual stimulation.

A clitoral orgasm can only be achieved from a maximally aroused clitoris, which generally takes from 5-20 minutes of foreplay to accomplish before intercourse. Continued stimulation of the clitoris may result in orgasm. This can be done in a couple of ways: 1) by pressing the padded pubic bone against Her clitoris and rubbing it up and down or in a circle, and 2) by in and out labia stretching strokes of an adequate size cock. The former can also be accomplished by the woman riding on top where She has control, while the later is often only accomplished by a large thick cock.

A thick cock stretches both sides of the inner labia (labia minora) pulling the clitoral hood downward and, in turn, pulling and rubbing the erect and swollen clitoris. A longer, thicker cock that makes deep strokes in and out provides alternate stretching and relaxing of the labia minora-a vibrator-like effect-and therefore greater clitoral stimulation. (It is easy to see how a woman could become addicted to the right sized cock for Her-one that gives Her orgasms like this during intercourse). This stretching is best done by a thick cock with good staying power-at least up to 20 minutes. (If this stimulation of the clitoris is being done by cunnilingus or masturbation, orgasm may occur in about 5 minutes, which is why oral skills are so important). Since Kinsey's studies found that 75% of men came within 2 minutes, orgasm during intercourse is not likely to occur unless the man is long-lasting. In addition, the man's penis must be long and thick enough and his technique must provide sufficient clitoral stimulation during that time.

Clitoral orgasms last for a few seconds and consist of 3-15 rhythmic muscular contractions less than a second apart (.8 sec) of the outer one-third of the vagina, the uterus and the anal area. Involuntary vocal sounds and facial expressions may occur and the woman may appear to briefly lose consciousness or to "black out." She may continue to feel pleasant sensations in the clitoral and genital area, and a thin film of perspiration may cover Her skin.

Other types of orgasms have been reported including: vaginal orgasm-a contraction of the lower third of the vagina-resulting from heavy G-spot simulation, and uterine orgasms resulting from stimulation of the "epicenter" or of the "anterior fornix erotic zone" located deep in the vagina. The later results in heavy contractions of the vagina and the uterus and triggers a heat wave running from the lower abdomen to the chest bone. It is said that a woman has a sense of deep sexual satisfaction after this kind of orgasm, which usually only comes from the superior penetration of a large cock. Of course, combinations of clitoral, vaginal, and uterine orgasms may occur, but again, it may take a larger cock (at least one that is large relative to the needs of the woman) to accomplish them.

Following orgasm, during the Resolution phase, the clitoris returns to its normal position in about 10 seconds, the vagina in about 15 minutes, and the uterus in about 20 minutes. If stimulation and arousal continue, however, some women may re-enter the plateau stage and have a series of "rolling" orgasms. Some women are capable-with the right stimulation-of multiple orgasms up to ten or more. During the Resolution phase, the woman is not likely to feel a smaller cock when hubby is having "sloppy seconds," for example. A small cock may feel even smaller. And, even though the woman's vagina returns to normal, as one woman says, "She may remember what that big penis felt like even though She's no longer stretched." As some have said, that memory may lessen the thrill of a small cock and make Her ache for the feeling the bigger cock gives Her.

How big is too big will therefore vary from woman to woman. Many find that 7-8" is about right, with some preferring 9" or even 10" or more. There may be some women, however, that are quite comfortable with the average 6" cock, especially if it is thick. When you go below 6" however, some women report, "The pleasurable feeling of deep penetration starts to get lost."

"Fatter than Hell" is the guideline

So what is the right size? A study done at the University of Texas found that 90% of the women surveyed preferred penis width over length for achieving sexual satisfaction. This contradicts the Masters and Johnson finding that penis size has no physiological effect on female sexual satisfaction. Their laboratory studies concluded that size didn't matter since the vagina adapts to the size of the penis by collapsing around it. However, for these women surveyed, size did matter, and it was width that mattered most. The researchers who conducted the study believe that "a wider penis provides greater contact with the outer part of the vagina, greater clitoral stimulation, and a greater feeling of "fullness," which is not just psychologically, but physiologically, satisfying." This jives with the data above, so it is no surprise that when it comes to thickness, "fatter than hell" seems to be the main guideline.

In affirmation of this, one woman who says, "size does matter for me," puts Her ideal cock size at "8.5" and thick." As long as it is thick, She will even go down to 6" in length. Another says, "More that 8" is a waste for me. I prefer thickness because it gives me much more stimulation on the clit and I love how it feels being so stretched out."

The importance of thickness comes up again and again. One woman says, "The cock has to be long enough to get to the bottom of my cunt but as thick as possible. The "beer can" cock is my kind of cock if it is 7" long it should be at least 7" in circumference. On a side note, She added "a large plum-like head bigger than the shaft is preferable for that dragging in and out feeling. These are the criteria that get my G-spot or whatever it is and is a far superior feeling than the average or smaller cocked guy."

As one experienced thick-cocked Bull said, "It is all about girth. I am over 8" long and almost 7" around and it drives the ladies wild. I always use lubricant and go very slow until they are spread out and I am completely in. I normally stay there and don't make any motion for a moment or so and they are the ones who start humping and bumping and screaming and yelling. All of the ladies tell me it hurts for a moment or so, but I can tell you for sure 100% say wider is better."

And finally, this observation from a hubby with a formerly skeptical wife: "My wife gave me all the baloney about how "size doesn't matter," but now that She's a Hot Wife, She admits it-She loves big cocks! Thicker is much more important than length. In fact, if they have more than 8", they are probably going to end up only inserting 8" into Her."

One reason that thickness really matters is that women have a ring of highly sensitive nerve endings at the entrance to the vagina and thick cocks make them feel really "open" and "stretched". (It is estimated that women have nearly twice as many nerve endings in the genital area as men-roughly 15,000 for women compared to 8,000 for men). When this stretching is added to a nice penetrating length that doesn't bang into the cervix too hard, the enhanced friction along Her inner vagina "sugar walls" from vigorous in-out fucking, the constant rubbing of Her interior clitoral shaft and G-spot, as well as the rubbing and vibrator effect of clitoral stimulation, it may come as no surprise that a tiny-cocked cuckold's wife might deliriously moan and beg for Her large-cocked Lover to fuck Her and "own" Her pussy. Is it any wonder that She is transformed fully after experiencing delicious wave after wave of intoxicating multiple vaginal, clitoral, and uterine orgasms in the hands of an attractive and aggressive appropriately endowed Lover?

Are small cocks of any sexual value?

So is there any hope for a cuckold with a small penis? Some women say that an average size penis can be fun if used creatively and really "worked"-not just in/out, but hard/soft, fast/slow, up/down, in circles, different angles, etc. (Of course, there's no reason why a larger cock can't be really "worked" too). One woman in Ellison's study on women's sexuality said, "There is an optimum size that is really nice, but if a man who has a small penis is creative, he can make it very pleasing. Some of the men I was with did that." (Carole)

And, if a hard-working little cock is accompanied by "full-body" loving in a romantic setting, maybe there is some hope. But if the larger cocked Lover is also good-and he probably is, maybe even better-or the cuckold's cock is much less than 6", then forget about it. Once a woman has tasted the thrill of a really good Lover with a "decent" sized cock that suits Her (say 7-9" long with a 6-7" pussy stretching girth!) it is "Katie bar the door!" As one woman said, "I always thought a large cock would be uncomfortable and wouldn't add anything. When my hubby and I finally found the perfect guy for our first experience, it turned out that he had an enormous cock-at least 8"-and more important, about as wide as my wrist. When I was comfortable with him and decided I had to fuck him, I wasn't expecting the size to be a plus, but I actually came right when he first entered me from his enormous cock head pushing my lips further than they had ever been!"

A small cock of 4-4.5" that bends or presses upward might be able to reach and press against the G-spot located 1-2" in on the upper wall of the vagina, however, it may not have sufficient length to rub it or sufficient girth or to really stretch the labia minora and stimulate the clitoris, which appears to be one of the keys to achieving orgasm during intercourse. However, with good staying power, and by "riding high" with the woman's legs up to shorten the vagina, a rocking motion to press the G-spot and put pubic pressure on the clitoris may give a woman a clitoral or vaginal G-spot orgasm. The deeper "epicenter" or anterior fornix orgasms that women sometimes report as "earth-shattering," are not likely to happen, however. Nor is doggie style, a favorite position for many women, likely to be as effective.

There are always exceptions of course, but the bottom line is that many small cocked men may make good husbands, but also may literally fall short when it comes to being exciting and stimulating Lovers for orgasmic penetrative sex. Some of the smaller men, who become cuckolds, are instinctively aware of this. Perhaps that is why a woman who marries a small cocked hubby who is sexually submissive may easily be able to "have Her cake and eat it too" by making him into a willing-even eager-cuckold, performing cunnilingus, using a dildo or vibrator on Her, and perhaps accepting, even encouraging Her to have enjoyable orgasmic sex with better-endowed men. This cuckold behavior appears to be a part of our natural evolution and sloppy seconds, or licking up the cum of sexually superior men, is many a cuckold's wet dream.

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From the polls:

WIVES: WHAT IS A DECENT SIZE FOR A MAN'S COCK?

Any cock under 6" was considered "not decent". By an overwhelming margin (87%), a "decent" size for a man's cock to be was considered greater than 6". A few (13%) chose 5-6", but nobody (0%) chose 4-5".

WIVES: WHAT ARE THE MINIMUM PENIS DIMENSIONS FOR YOU TO ACHIEVE ORGASM?

Most said the minimum length for achieving orgasm is 6"-7", with a girth of 6" (2" in diameter)

WIVES: HAVE YOU MEASURED A MAN'S PENIS?

Most (62%) said yes, that they had measures "several Lovers" (29%), "a former Lover" (17%), or "my current partner" (16%). A significant number (28%) said no, that they had just compared mentally. Only 7% said "never."

WIVES: WHAT ARE YOUR PERFECT PENIS DIMENSIONS?

The majority (54%) said 7"-9" was the perfect range for length, with a significant number (32%) preferring a larger 9"-10+" length. For girth, most (42%) said 6"-6.5" around is perfect, while a significant number (34%) prefer a thicker 6.5"-7+" girth.

WIVES: WHAT IS THE BEST COCK SIZE FOR FIT AND FEEL?

Most chose 9" long as best, with 10+" as number two with half as many votes. 8" was close behind that.

WIVES: DO YOU THINK THAT BIGGER IS BETTER AND IS MORE SEXUALLY STIMULATING?

The vast majority (69%) say yes, that bigger is better and is more visually stimulating than smaller or average sized penises.

WIVES: WHAT SIZE PENIS WOULD YOU PREFER TO HAVE ANAL SEX WITH?

Most (61%) say a small to average penis. The rest were divided between below average (12%), above average (10%), large (7%), and extra large (7%).

WIVES: WHICH DO YOU PREFER, A BIG PENIS OR ORAL SKILLS?

More (47%) said they preferred a modest size penis with great oral skills. Close behind (42%) however, was a big penis and OK oral skills.

WIVES: HOW DO YOU FEEL ABOUT A LARGE COCK HITTING BOTTOM, I.E., BUMPING AGAINST YOUR CERVIX?

The most frequent response was "hitting bottom is the best thing about vaginal intercourse." About half as many were split between "I can't orgasm without hitting bottom," "I like it but it has to be gentle," and "it hurts, but that's good."

WIVES: WHAT IS THE LARGEST COCK YOU'VE TAKEN?

Half (50%) said the largest was in the range 7.5"-10" in length with the rest mostly split between 6.5"-7" on the low side to 10+" on the high side. Most (58%) said they had experienced a girth of 5.5"-6.5". Most wives (69%) said that the largest cock they had experienced was wielded by a former Lover. In terms of how it felt most (53%) said "It felt GREAT!" Only 10% said, "it hurt".

CUCKOLDS: WHAT'S THE BIGGEST COCK YOU'VE SEEN YOUR WIFE TAKE?

The largest dicks that cucks have seen their wives enjoy have been 8", 10", and 9" respectively, with a few having seen them pleasured by monster dicks over 10". The later appears to be rare, however.

WIVES: WHAT IS THE LONGEST COCK YOU HAVE TAKEN?

According to this poll there are some really large cocks out there. Most (53%) fell between 7-10", but many (47%) said they have had cocks over 10" long, with a few (12%) greater than 12" long! The rest of the categories ranging from 10"-13" were evenly divided at about 12% each. Here are the numbers in order:

1. 9-10" (23%)
2. 8-9" (16%)
3. 7-8" (14%)
4. 10-11" (12%)
5. 13+" (12%)
6. 11-12" (11%)
7. 12-13" (11%)

WIVES: WHAT IS THE FATTEST COCK YOU HAVE TAKEN?

The top two selections were 6-7" around (26%) and 5-6" around (21%), though many (20%) claimed to have been stretched by cocks greater than 7" around.

WIVES: WHAT ARE THE PERFECT PENIS DIMENSIONS FOR YOU?

Most said 7-9" long with a girth of 6-6.5". Many, however, prefer a long 9-10" (or more) with a girth exceeding 7".

WIVES: WHICH IS MORE IMPORTANT-PENIS LENGTH OR THICKNESS?

It's perhaps not surprising that by far (73%), thickness was deemed more important than length (27%).

WIVES: WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE SIZE OF THE AVERAGE ERECTION?

In line with the results of a number of studies, the most frequent (35%) choice was 6". Next in line (23%) was a slightly smaller 5.5-5.75".

WIVES: WHAT DO YOU THINK IS THE CIRCUMFERENCE OF THE AVERAGE ERECTION?

Many (42%) said 4.5", while some (27%) said 5". Some (20%) said from 5.5-6", while only a few (10%) said 4". (These results are not far off the mark of one large study that pegged the average thickness at 4.75")

Next time: "Is More Merrier?"

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