1. Have you ever included a white guy in your sex games BEFORE you became turned on to black?

No, but I’ve been more open to some playing with white guys since going black.

2. How did your first black experience occur?

Hubby and I had a good friend pass away and while talking about it hubby asked me if I knew I was going to die tomorrow would I have any regrets. I told him of a crush I’d had on a black guy in high school and told hubby I regretted never being with several different guys (we married very young and I did not have a lot of experiences), and added that I wish I’d done the black guy. Hubby got quiet and finally said. “We could do that, we shouldn’t have any regrets that we wish we had done something.” After that it was just looking for the right person, and I met this really hot guy at a bar and was doing some heavy flirting. Girls in the bar were all over him but he kept paying attention to me. I introduced him to hubby and they talked some, exchanged cards, and later that day I told hubby, “If we’re going to ever do it then he’s the guy.” A month or so later I asked hubby to contact him, and hubby asked him if he’d ever done anything like being with a couple before— and come to find out he had and was willing— so we met a few weeks later and I lost my black cherry to him.

3. What was the most exciting thing about this experience? (For the Woman.)

Want a list? To finally live the fantasy of a black guy— and a guy this hot. Damn. And hubby there watching, and later hubby and him together at the same time.

4. What was the most exciting thing about this experience? (For the man.)

I’ve always loved her getting beyond her self-imposed boundaries. The bolder she is the more I love it. And then actually fucking someone else while I watched— not cheating, but something we were doing together. Wow. And the photos— I’m not a cuck but definitely a voyeur, and love to take photos and video. It was the wildest sex show I’ve ever seen, knowing it was my own wife making that noise, receiving that pleasure. I know what a great fuck she is, and it is a turn on seeing someone else enjoying that pleasure as well.

5. What are the things you enjoy doing most with black guys (and why?)

I love the whole experience, especially oral sex, both giving and receiving. I love the fucking too! It has been a long time fantasy and it was good— so why stop? All the guys we’ve been with have been professional, gentlemen, (and great fucks). Once I get started I really pay no attention to color— but for some reason the idea of being with a black guy is flaunting society norms, so that is a rush, if a dowdy old lady looks at me disapproving that makes it that much hotter. I guess I’ve always enjoyed pushing the limits. I’ve found the texture of most black guy’s skin is different, velvety. And the photos afterwards— well hubby took photos of me with a white guy at Hedo last year, and when we looked at them it was hard to tell who was hubby and who wasn’t. With a black guy that’s not a problem.

6. Are you into domination/humiliation? (This question is for both of you.)

Her: I like to please my partner, so I guess I lean toward being sub a little. I don’t mind if a partner slaps my ass, but I also enjoy being asked if I want come in me or on me. I don’t necessarily like to make the decisions as what we do, so I’m a bit compliant in that— I want to please and am very open usually. But I wanted to be treated with respect and courtesy as well. I do like to have my hands and feet bound, but have only done that with hubby so far. That doesn’t mean I don’t enjoy being talked dirty to, hubby does that at times and I love it, but so far my black lovers have not said much more than, “Like my big cock?” Which of course I answer that I do, because I do.

Him: Not into humiliation at all— and frankly it wouldn’t be tolerated. I’m sharing my wife with him— and that demands respect or things end right then. I enjoy asking her to do things that she wouldn’t normally do— such as opening her top when we’re driving down the highway. But that is more as a request she does for me rather than me demanding it, and certainly not the humiliate anyone.

7. Do you prefer hubby to just watch or join in? (and why?)

I enjoy him watching, as I am an exhibitionist. I’d love for others to watch too in the right setting. He joins in at times, as one of my fantasies is two guys at once— but sometimes it is just distracting too.

8. As hubby, do you prefer to watch or join in?

It depends on the mood and the guy and how busy they are. I always enjoy watching— I enjoy joining in at times too.

9. Rough estimate - how many black guys have you been with (and how many white?)

In the year and a half since my first time I’ve been with six different guys, five of them black, some of them as many as three times each. That doesn’t include a soft-swing we did with a couple at Hedo.

10. Do you use condoms or do you prefer unprotected sex?

I prefer bareback, but require the guys use condoms as a precaution. This is not worth dying over. After I had been with two of the guys on more than one occasion we did go bareback. However I love to have a guy come on my face and breasts. I have no problem with swallowing for oral sex either.

11. If you have used both methods, which does hubby prefer (and why?)

Hubby prefers condoms because it is safer for us.

12. Is there anything you wouldn't do with black guys?

I wouldn’t do a video of me in a gang bang.

13. Does hubby like clean up duties? If so, on you only or the lovers too?

Hubby’s answer: HELL No! I have never figured out what is erotic about licking another man’s come off my wife. I’m very straight. The only time I touch the partner is when we shake hands upon meeting.

14. How long have you been doing black?

About 18 months. I was sidelined for a couple of months of that time due to some minor surgery.

15. How many white guys have you done? Do you still do white?

I’ve been with three white guys, and probably would again. All in all I prefer black guys.

16. Are black guys really bigger and better?

On average they might be bigger. Better? I think when I am with a black guy he is trying very hard to please me therefore it is very satisfying. However over the long haul I can’t imagine that he could satisfy me more than my husband.

17. Do you eat black cum?

Yes, and l like it on my face and chest too.

18. Do you fuck on a "first date"?

Yes, I have so far every time. But I’ve always email a time or two and talk to them on the phone for a while before we meet some I’m comfortable with them before we meet.

19. What did you do about any black guys you might not have liked?

I have been very lucky. We tend to go through an extensive screening process before we meet therefore we have had very good luck.

20. Do you have any favorite sayings?

It is true, “once you’ve had black— won’t go back”.

21. What do you want known about you here at Dark Cavern?

That I am a real person with a real life and all that that entails. When time allows I love to play. I am open to meeting professional guys that hit the criteria of my ad in the Georgia section. We travel quite a bit so location is not that important. I’m not as promiscuous as this interview might imply— but I do like to play every 4-6 weeks. Hint: the ad is a test of sorts— if you take the time to read it and if you fit what we seek and respond in courteous manner you will get a reply!

22. What is the highest number of people who you have had sex with in one night?

Two, hubby and a friend.