1. Have you ever included a white guy in your sex games BEFORE you became turned on to black?

No, my first experience with swinging was interracial. Only afterwards did we start including white men. I enjoy both white and black men, but there's something really hot and taboo about interracial sex that makes it really special.

2. How did your first black experience occur?

My husband, Steve, had quite a few swinging experiences as a single guy before we met and married. One of his girlfriends introduced him to it...FMF threesomes with other women and straight, hetero MFM and gangbangs with other guys. He really enjoyed watching as much as he did participating, and he especially got off on watching her with well-hung black guys.

  Well, telling me all these stories really got me curious. We discussed it for a long time, and once I was ready, we pursued it with an ad right here on the Dark Cavern a couple years ago. We met a GREAT guy who lived about 45 minutes away... good-looking, very dark, and well-hung... and he also had about 6 years of swinging experience, which was even better! Most of the guys who applied were out of shape, not well-hung at all, and often extremely unattractive... so when we got this response, we were elated.

Anyway, we met socially and instantly hit it off. We had a VERY hot tryst in a local hotel and the rest, as they say, is history! I knew right then and there that I was born for the swinging life, and fucking other men right in front of Steve's loving eyes was wild beyond belief!


3. What was the most exciting thing about this experience? (For the Woman.)

Definitely breaking a lot of taboos, I'd say. I come from a very conservative background so fucking a hung black stud and my husband in a hotel room was just unreal!

4. What was the most exciting thing about this experience? (For the man.)

Hmmm...I'd have to say there were two things equally exciting about it.

Speaking strictly from a voyeuristic standpoint, is the obvious visual aspect of the contrasting skin colors was hot.

From from a relational standpoint, though, watching my beloved wife let go and dare to live out one of her deepest, most taboo fantasies was just unbelievable. There are really no words to describe it... it was truly a defining moment in our marriage. I'd had a quite a few great swinging experiences when I was in my late teens and early twenties, both as a single "extra man" and with girlfriends, but being happily married and swinging with your soul mate is out of this world.

5. What are the things you enjoy doing most with black guys (and why?)

Well, I only enjoy it with black guys if they are VERY well-hung. So the size issue makes me a little crazy and I get into "cock worship" when a guy has over 9 honest inches.

Other than that, I'm into the same exact things a with white guys... I'm just as kinky and just as "wild".  

6. Are you into domination/humiliation? (This question is for both of you.)

I (Janet) enjoy being submissive, but I'm NOT into the humiliation scene at all. Ditto for Steve... he enjoys dominating me, but he's not into either humiliating or being humiliated.

7. Do you prefer hubby to just watch or join in? (and why?)

I prefer him to join in, but when he's taking photos or videotaping then it's often hard for him to focus on both things equally, so in those cases he just watches.

8. As hubby, do you prefer to watch or join in?

Like Janet, I also prefer joining in and being part of her pleasure. But being behind the camera takes a lot of focus if you want good pics or a good video. So, I settle for watching unless we're not doing a shoot.

9. Rough estimate - how many black guys have you been with (and how many white?)

Since my first experience not quite 2 years ago, 10 black guys and 5 white. Those are exact counts, BTW... we have a "little black book" that we record our experiences in.

There would be more except that we are VERY selective. Most of then guys who contact us are out-of-shape slobs or arrogant fools. We don't meet sexually with anyone who we wouldn't want to hang out with socially, too. It's the quality of the experiences that counts for us, not the quantity.

10. Do you use condoms or do you prefer unprotected sex?

I prefer unprotected sex, because I just LOVE creampies.... but we only do this with guys we know and trust and who also have current HIV-negative test results. Otherwise, condoms are a must with no exceptions.

11. If you have used both methods, which does hubby prefer (and why?)

Steve likes me have what I want, in all cases. He enjoys "spoiling me". Neither of us pushes anything onto the other. So, he's into bareback sex, too, because he loves the way I flip out when I get my pussy filled with sperm, especially from more than one man at once. But again, that's only when we know and trust the guys and they have a current HIV-negative test results to show.

12. Is there anything you wouldn't do with black guys?

When it comes to what I will or won't do, whether a guy is black or white or any other race isn't the issue. I do what I enjoy with any man, and don't do what I don't enjoy with any man.

13. Does hubby like clean up duties? If so, on you only or the lovers too?

God, no! That scene makes us both feel nauseous just thinking about it. Steve's not bi in the slightest. Nor is he one of these "wimp husbands" and into being degraded. In fact, he's good-looking, trim and fit enough that he intimidates many of the guys who contact us. I think that's even more true because he's not a hyper-macho "tough guy" at all... he's very friendly and outgoing. On top of that, he's got a well-above-average size cock and can out-fuck 90% of the guys we've met. So men who are on ego trips or think that they're giving me something  I can't get at  home are sadly mistaken! It's just great, kinky sex that we're into, none of the heavy psychological stuff. More like an unconventional version of good, clean fun.. pure animal LUST! :)

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