Should cuckolds be totally ready to lose their woman to a black man?

[mygirlneedsit]

I know this is old and the idea goes against the entirety of the site-

I generally see alot of expectance that men are supposed to remain faithful while the wife plays and has her own thing. Would any of the women here care to chime in, would you let your husband fuck another woman? black, white, whatever.. would you watch too?

I'm just wondering ifthe roles were switched, if everyone would have the same attitude. Naturally, men are born breeders.. Our main goal is to spread the seed to as many females as possible. So, what happens if he gets tired of one woman and starts fucking others?

Would you lose your head? Enjoy it and "go with nature"?

Thoughts please.

[QueenBimboSarah]

In response to the topic's question at hand... I think, yes, any cuckold should be ready and prepared to lose their woman to a black man. Not that it will probably happen (or even be so cut and dry as the woman running away with her new lover) but if you, as a cuck, introduce your wife to the lifestyle and she finds not only a better sexual experience but also a great romantic and personal relationship with her stud... well, at least be ready to become your wife and her lover's totally submissive cuckold.

For every great cuckold IR relationship I hear about, I usually end up hearing about a situation in where, if it didnt end the marriage, resulted on the hubby sleeping in his own room while his wife and her black love shared the master bedroom and the cucks former bed; on top of the wife never giving her hubby more than a hand job, and expecting her cuckold hubby to get all his thrills eating her out or pleasing himself. In the worst cases of a cuckold marriage that stayed together but was totally strained the husband would be housing and paying for the black stud's expenses while being completely sexually shunned-not only not being allowed to watch but being forced to stay on the other end of the house in his room so as to not get off on the sounds or something lol.

Cuckold white bois might come to find that the intracacies of being a sub hubby in a cuckold IR relationship, and having the fantasy he wanted fulfilled can be totally unpleasant if suddenly wifey and her supremely influential black lover start setting ground rules you never okayed (much less considered) and make the life of a cuckold subhubby nearly voluntary slavery. Just ask the poor, beaten hubbies that stick around regardless of rules they never anticipated; guys who still get off on the lifestyle, and have a great friendship with their wife, but along with no long getting even a hand job from their wife, but are also denied any real access and participation in the wife and black guys actual sex life. So, the option becomes break up or accept the way things have become. That is, paying for your wife and her stud's bills and recreation, being treated like a platonic male friend by a wife who once upon a time was crazy about you, having to sit idly by in your own home or in public while your wife and her boyfriend openly act like horny, lovey dovey newly weds whenever they're not fucking behind a locked door in your bed for the 3rd time that day, and who knows what else.

Every situation is different; it really depends on the husband and wife, the guys she's with, the husbands willingness to happily submit, and numerous other factors. So, if a cuckold relationship if one you want don't not pursue it... just be ready for everything it will certainly bring with it (seeing your wife acting like a bitch in heat with other, often sexually superior men) and everything it might bring with it (in the case of a sissy cuck, your original agreement to give up regular sex unlesss initiated by her on a special occasion turning into not just giving up all pussy sex but also any release for you where she has to work to give you an orgasm). You might end up getting a real controlling black stud who is uninterested in having a lil white cock around while he fucks his new girl, and if he's really hit it off with your wife... she's probably gonna side with him and do what he wants to do, even if it means hurting you and alienating you sexually.

Not that is all the wife's new stud manipulating the situation, not at all, but when they become as close as a lot of wives/studs do (especially if the hubby is a sub type who wanted to be dominated in the first place)... that black man often gets whatever he wants through direct and indirect demand. For a lot of girls that get involved in this type of relationship, they find the firm, usually uncomprosing dominance a black stud puts forth (in all aspects of peronality and physicality) fulfilling and exciting to their naturally submissive side-a side every girl has. And even if they wanted to really argue with their new lover about how it'd just be fair or whatever to let hubby in and watch; faced suddenly w/ your primary sexual and romantic interest telling you, after letting hubby watch serveral times before, he doesnt like having to deal with a sissy white boi being in the room and that he'd be unable to have sex anytime the husband is around in the future... youd take one look at your studly black lover's big, rock hard ready cock that he's motioning you to come over and suck, and you would say to yourself "its okay... hubby wanted to be a real submissive cuckold and said my pleasure is most important and what pleases him; plus, we'll figure out something soon... some kind of way around this so hubby can still get involved. Everything will be fine as long as I have this manly man's big package and wonderful sex all the time though..."

Any potential cuckolds just keep in mind that a sexy, well hung black man who can fuck like superman and sweet talk your wife can turn even the best wives with the best intentions into a woman so in love with her new found romance, the best sex of her life, and keeping this new lifestyle going that she might not be above seriously betraying her hubby in numerous different way. You never know just what you might trigger in your partner if you let her start seeing other men; maybe it'll be what yall initially talked about it being or maybe it'll be a pandora's box of ecstacy, confusion, jealousy and ultimately divorce... you never know, right?

Finally, its my personal opinion that all white bois should let their wives cuck black men and should be happy to support such a lifestyle-even if it means giving up lots of things you didn't anticipate giving up lol. I mean, there is a line and all, but in a perfect world any white men married to or seriously dating a white girl should give their partner the gift of bbc if she wants it hehhe. Cause... big black cock is truly a gift that keeps on giving-hehehe. Byeee xoxo -Sarah

[aaspire]

Wow I must say we Humans are complex ! I am not down on "ANYONE", We all have our own desires, and idea's of pleasure. I feel it is all about finding the the person(s) that give the maxium pleasure, and go with them. If it is one time or 500 hundred times. If it's Hub being a cuck, sissy boi or a bull who takes a female and makes her see new worlds, It's all good. We are all winners and losers, That is Life ! Good Vibes to Everyone, and Everyone go enjopy LIFE however you wish !

[Zagg]

In any relationship there's always the possibility that one partner will meet someone he or she finds more attractive than his/her current partner. This is certainly can happen when the female partner is engaging in sexual relationships with hypermasculine black men. To that extent, anyway, a cuck white guy should always be prepared to have her leave him. That must be part of the thrill for him. But each case is different. If she's satisfied with the social circumstances of her white marriage, while also having the freedom to satisfy her sexual cravings for black men, the relationship might very well be more solid and stable than a conventional marriage.

[lisakneels]

I've only been with a couple black guys and I guess my original desire was because of rumors about the size of a black man's cock. It turned out that one guy was quite big and the other about average. I do agree with what was mentioned earlier though. It's the attitude !!
My guys seemed like sex machines. That I was there for their pleasure, which I was. But their pleasure also gave me great pleasure. I call that a win-win.

[indiansissymaid]

I may sound naive, but I think the reason why a two people get married is more than just for lust's sake. Great sex is just that, great sex, maybe with a bit of effection for whom she's spreading for, but I think women of today are sensible enough to call it as it is. If a marriage isn't built on a stronger foundation than just sex, a partner will leave in any case in the long run, whether drawn to a bull or just because the marriage doesn't hold anything for her.

[816ac]

My wife had long been curious about sex with a black man when I brought the subject up. I think we both shocked each other with the debth of our desires for her to do this! I know we had one of the most fabulous nights of sex we ever enjoyed as we talked about this and fucked literally until daylight, on the night we confessed all our secret dreams of this for her.

No husband was ever more eager for his Darling to mate than I, and I believe few white women were ever more excited over the prospect than my hotwife. She could not have made a more excellent choice for her 1st black lover......for her thrills, my voyeuristic ones,....nor I believe, his pleasure. Her second lover was just as outstanding for her. Then she went a little nuts and for several months it was all about quantity.....though I will quickly add that quality was never really sacrificed, in this whirlwind of lovers.

Fast forward a few years of steady IR to where we are today. A position neither of us dreamed we could be in, in those early days. I still enjoy and support my wife in all she does, but there is NO sex between us any more. ALL her sexual lusts and needs are met with her Dom and his friends. To use the words of this thread, I have "lost" her........SEXUALLY.....to her black BF. Yes she confesses she is "in love" with him. She rightly asserts that "you can not fuck a man for 4 years in ALL types of situations, places, and conditions....and NOT be a little in love with him....despite your marital status." But break up her home, EVEN, if HE, wanted her to, has never been a consideration. She knows even if she is with him for several days (and nights) running she NEVER doubts that she has a loving white husband waiting with love and support for her "fun".......and that her key will always work in the front door when she comes home.
This knowledge gives her complete freedom to indulge her lusts and enjoy herself with no worries in her play life........knowing her stable vanilla life awaits, when the fun is over and the "cougar" is tamed......and sated. A fact she and I both cherish. So yeah you can "loose" her.....without any danger of "loosing" her, if the DEBTH is there in the marriage and you both seek the same thing.

As for her lover he has ALL of her whenever she is with him. IN and out of bed she has been a "wife" to him in every way he desires. Plus she fills all the "play" roles he desires...slut, whore, submissive, and more. Then when he is sated, the play date is over, or they are back from the trip, he simply sends her home to her white hubby for her to be his concern, until the next time he desires her company and body.

We consider it a win-win for all. Just our two cents.

[Tara]

I do not know why this is usually only blackmen fucking white women. We are swingers and have had many partners. I fuck black and white guys all the time. My husband would love to fuck a lot of black women but that does not seem to work out. Black women just do not seem to be into this like white women.

I would love to hear an explanation for this. I know black women like to fuck so what gives.

[mhall]

Along with lisakneels, I would just comment that, in my cuckold relationship at least, the cuckolding is purely sexual - if the marriage is a good and strong one the woman will be able to use the so called "bull" as nothing more than a dildo with extras. True, loving relationships are a lot more than just sex and rule 1 must always be to be in control, even when pretending not to be.

We are a bizzare people

[Zagg]

Originally Posted by 816ac

Fast forward a few years of steady IR to where we are today. A position neither of us dreamed we could be in, in those early days. I still enjoy and support my wife in all she does, but there is NO sex between us any more. ALL her sexual lusts and needs are met with her Dom and his friends. To use the words of this thread, I have "lost" her........SEXUALLY.....to her black BF. Yes she confesses she is "in love" with him. She rightly asserts that "you can not fuck a man for 4 years in ALL types of situations, places, and conditions....and NOT be a little in love with him....despite your marital status." But break up her home, EVEN, if HE, wanted her to, has never been a consideration. She knows even if she is with him for several days (and nights) running she NEVER doubts that she has a loving white husband waiting with love and support for her "fun".......and that her key will always work in the front door when she comes home.

Since you're both happy with the situation, great. I think a lot of guys with cuck fantasies would also love your outcome. Given that women tend to want exclusivity in their relationships, but for social reasons don't want to marry a black guy, I'm surprised that more IR relationships don't turn out the way that your's has.