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11-19-2008, 12:54 AM
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Should cuckolds be totally ready to lose their woman to a black man?
So a lot of people get into this in a halfway manner.
You know, the wife or girlfriend says she finds black men attractive, you tell her that's a fantasy of yours as well, you start looking at some IR porn together... Next thing you know one evening after a few drinks you put an ad on craigslist looking for a black man or maybe you post a few pictures here. Hey! Someone replies! So you tentatively write back and he sounds decent and safe and sends back a picture of him naked, showing his big dick off. The wife or girlfriend drools and gasps and gets really excited...maybe more excited than you expected her to. So you set up a meeting at a restaurant or a Starbucks and you all show up and get along well and as you leave you see the wife with a smile she can't hide and a dazed look. But it's all fantasy...so far. Topic for discussion: if you take the next step, should you be fully prepared to lose your wife to a strong, hung black man? If she did leave you for a black man who could give her more sexual pleasure than you could, would it actually make you respect her more? Would it be the ultimate fantasy, knowing that she chose a black man over you? For the women on the board, would you get into a situation knowing that the right black man would make you leave your husband? Is this a fantasy? To be taken away from a white man by a strong sexually superior black man? 
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11-19-2008, 01:24 AM
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Maybe I can lend a woman's insight to this thread! Just because a married wife has a black (or any other color) fuckbuddy doesn't mean we just want to dump Hubby! I was curious about BBC as nearly all of the white celebrity girls who are rich, powerfull and stunningly sexy, and could have any guy they pointed at, all seem to be hooking up with BBC. So there must be something in it and there was, as I found out. Not all of them have monster cocks but they do have a different attitude to sex and the woman's role. So white guys, don't be so afraid to let your girl experiment because sooner or later she will and it's best to be supportive of her curiosity instead of driving her into the arms of a BBC out of sheer boredom. Going black is enevitable for any girl sooner or later, just make sure you give her the freedom to choose - you do this and she'll always come back (maybe a little sore and tired) but she'll come back. But remember, forbidden fruit is always the sweetest, so instead of making it taboo, why not join in and help us curious girls? Make the fantasy a reality. Help us get ready for the date, you will be rewarded with all the details when we get back and probably a guaranteed handjob if you have been a good boy!
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11-19-2008, 01:49 AM
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Thanks.
Tonya -
That was my basic guess at the female perspective - that most women do not have any desire to leave their husbands when they take a man on the side - but also the husbands need to be understanding or who knows what might happen. Real world example - I know a woman who wanted to experiment with black men, although she was seriously dating a white guy. She hinted around a bit but he didn't catch on, so she ended up cheating on him with 3 black guys. He went nuts and broke up with her and was a real flaming asshat about the whole thing. She had no desire to break up with him and just wanted to experiment on the side a little, but he wouldn't even consider it (although he was 100% into it when she hooked up with another woman and she let him watch...  ).He REALLY screwed himself over by having a double standard and then going berzerk, as she chronicled the whole thing on her blog. She even put (non-nude) pictures up there of her in the arms of her new black boyfriend, wrote about how big his penis was compared to the guy that broke up with her, wrote about showing off her black boyfriend's dick to her female friends... The bottom line is that he could have had a really fun, cool, hot, beautiful wife that would be the envy of all of us here if he just her her play and explore a bit. But no... Anyone else have any thoughts on whether cuckolds should be prepared to lose their women to black men? Or whether women have fantasies about being taken away by strong black men?
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11-19-2008, 02:23 AM
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Couldn't agree more DMAD! All us girls want to experience BBC at least once in our life, either secretly or in front of hubby. After years of fumbling "one hump chumps" I finally found a guy who was great in bed and had an open (and somewhat twisted) mind. So my marriage is stable yet open. Why should I leave? It's a win-win situation here. I'm sure he gets as much excitement searching online for new guys as I do. He watches me when I cam with guys who cover their keyboards in cum for me. He says he's proud of me, and he says he's addicted to the feeling of a knot in his stomach whenever he sees me getting a good seeing to in the hands of a new lover.
But that's all it is, a physical release, a hobby if you will. By denying our instincts, some guys soon find out that girls like us get restless and in the end crave our sexual freedom. Hey guys, why not sit back and enjoy the ride? Participate and encourage instead of stiffling your girl's libido? You might find a whole new world of adventure! Hubby says he relishes the hours he spends on date nite, shaving me smooth for my stud, running the bubble bath, massaging the lotion all over and helping choose my outfit for the nite. It's not humiliating for him, but rather a celebration of the fact that guys still find his wife attractive and he likes to see me happy. After 15 years of marriage, our sex life has never been more fun. Try it, don't be afraid guys, she'll thank you for it! but don't push her into anything, just as DMAD says in his first post, take baby steps. His description is a classic 101 on how to get the job done. I bet your wife is a happy and fullfilled woman!
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11-19-2008, 11:19 AM
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sharing the wife
its easy to allow jelousy and sefl fear on teh part of a man to stop or try and stop a female trying to see what sex etc is like with a black man. the more we make it taboo the more exciting and desirable teh urge becomes to try it. possibly a bit like drugs and drink to teenagers.
ideally a female should be encouraged to experiment either before marriage or during so the attraction simply becomes one of sexual satisfaction an dnot of changing partners or leaving the hubby. There is no real reason a female should not have had sexual relations with on average 15 or more men in order to learn the sexual pleasures can be removed from the partnership equations. men should learn to assit thier wives to explore and enjoy this side of themselves. they will in fact find a much more understanding and sexually active partner to share life with in return. we do not 'own' our wives its about sharing and caring for our partners so why hesitate or are you just feeling inadequate? my wife has tried with another man and did in fact fall in love with him for a while but that phase passed and he became history after less tha two years.
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11-19-2008, 12:36 PM
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superior my ass
besides is not all about sex dude and not all girls wants to go black Last edited by sweet sahumerio; 11-19-2008 at 12:38 PM.
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11-19-2008, 12:42 PM
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and no, if for some odd reason I was to leave my husband, and be with the black man, I don't think i would be proud or flaunt it. when a couple splits it hurts a lot of people. but if you don't go into this with your eyes open and being secure in your life with your spouse, it could happen.
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11-19-2008, 01:36 PM
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Even though, a bull can sometimes pull a woman, its not something I go into hoping to do, both parties want the best of both worlds. The one time a white wife wanted to leave her husband for me, it was a combination of reasons. She was not happy before I came into their life, and I was only one-inch longer than him, but she liked my laid back manner, and the part of the country I lived in. He was a constant complainer and angry about the way the wind blows.
That was over 5 years ago, and I still sometimes regret not accepting her offer to stay with me, she was a very sweet lady, but I was not looking to for a companion at that time. She is now divorced and married to another white guy with a laid back manner like myself. The sex was great with her, but more than that was the type of person she was, I really hope to find another lady like her, and this time I am going to keep her....by the way I meet them/her here in the DC.
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11-19-2008, 02:52 PM
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Cuckoldry is not, in my book at least, about "losing" anything. If the relationship is strong and loving, it is just a "game" and the so called bull is used by the couple for their own enjoyment and, secondly, the bulls.
If you lose you wife to anyone it is because your relationship was flawed in the first place. You should never, for one second, think that "becoming a cuck" will fix a broken marriage.
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I may be white, I may be cuckold, I may have a tiny dick and love the "humiliation", but that does not make me a sissy or wimp. Get it wrong and I'll kick you from here to next week.
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