Chapter One - What Is A Cuckold?
Chapter Two - What Cuckolds Want
Chapter Three - What Cuckolding Wives Want
Chapter Four - The Tall Dark Stranger Syndrome
Chapter Five - Strict Wives-More than A Dose of Humiliation
Chapter Six - Orgasm Denial and Chastity
Chapter Seven - Sissification
Chapter Eight - What Bulls (Lovers, Studs, Masters, Real Men) Want
Chapter Nine - Is Bigger Better?
Chapter Ten - Is More Merrier?
Chapter Eleven - Is Black Sweeter?
Chapter Twelve - Having Lover's Baby
Chapter Thirteen - Love and Jealousy
Chapter Fourteen - There's No Turning Back

Chapter 4

The Tall Dark Stranger Syndrome

"Female primates often show a particular interest in mating with a male who is the new guy on the block. Paradoxically, although these new arrivals are nearly always low in social rank, they are often sexually appealing to females. The human equivalent may come from the interest and even fascination often generated by the "drifter," the mysterious newcomer. Even the cliché, "you will meet a tall dark stranger," might also capture some of the (literal) romance of novelty. On an evolutionary level it is at least possible that this "strange male preference" derives from in-breeding avoidance. In which case, it isn't so strange after all." ("The Myth of Monogamy," David Barash and Judith Lipton).

The tall dark stranger syndrome does not necessarily mean that most women want the "zipless fuck" of passionate sex with an anonymous stranger on a train, as described by Erica Jong in "Fear of Flying." While this may be a common fantasy for some, for many women they are turned on more by fantasizing about someone they know, someone who cares about them, showers them with attention, looks at them with burning desire, holds them warmly, kisses them tenderly, and whispers in their ear that they are the center of his life.

Still, many of the ads wives place looking for Lovers are indeed seeking strangers-men outside their circle of friends and work colleagues. Some are looking for brief dalliances-even one night stands-but most appear to be looking for someone they can convert to a regular "long-term" Lover and friend. That is, until that Lover becomes too familiar, and they are ready to convert another stranger.

What women look for may also depend on whether they are looking for pure sex or for romance. A well-endowed handsome stranger at an off-site business conference may fill the bill for the former, while a woman may look closer to home for the later-perhaps a friend of hubby, or a co-worker, or someone She knows through an acquaintance.

In one experiment conducted on a college campus, women were reluctant to have sex with a stranger even if someone She knew vouched for him. In today's world of dangerous STDs, random violence (by men), and other unsavory risks, many women feel safer with the familiar, or at least safer if hubby is along to protect Her. This is especially true of first meetings. After a woman becomes comfortable with Her Lover She may want to see him alone without hubby there. On the other hand, in the same study, men were much more likely to have sex with a stranger and, as the study notes, "Men's sexual fantasies more often include strangers, multiple partners, and anonymous partners." Perhaps this is why many cuckold hubbies are so turned on by seeing their wife flirt and pick up strangers in a bar.

There are many scenarios in which the tall, dark, stranger syndrome may play out. Some common ones are:

Bar pickups

In this scenario the wife goes out with cuckold hubby in tow to a "pickup" bar or hotel lounge swarming with attractive high-testosterone men. She is dressed for sin in a slinky low cut mini with thigh high stockings, "fuck-me" heels, and no panties or bra. Cuckold hubby watches-often from afar-as his slut wife flirts, teases, and flaunts Her availability to other men. They ply Her with drinks, chat Her up, and then feel Her up on the dance floor, as they grope and kiss Her seductively to slow romantic music in front of panting hubby. One or more men lead Her to an alley or to a van in the parking lot where they have no-holes-barred sex. She returns to the bar with Her lipstick smeared, Her hair mussed, and Her dress and hose disheveled and possibly cum stained for hubby and everyone else in the bar to see. Or, She may just go home with the strangers and return to hubby in the morning.

One wife said that She has "good success" with this scenario at bars catering to traveling businessmen. Another says that She looks for "lots of men and a live band." She says that She lures friendly men to Her table with hubby and teases them in front of him by rubbing Her legs against them under the table and complaining that Her hubby won't dance with Her. They usually take the bait, but despite the teasing and slow dancing She says, "I don't go all the way with strangers." She says that shy, rather than overly macho guys, often work out best.

Another older woman who prowls bars and clubs for younger men and whose cuckold hubby has a small cock and is a "2-minute man," says, "Men are incredibly easy. I have no trouble finding all the young big hard cocks I want." Even when She searches for strangers, Her objective is to find someone She can see regularly. She finally settled on two young Black men in their 20s that She dates twice a week.

Glory holes

The wife may give hand-jobs or suck the cocks of strangers at glory holes in the peep-show booths at adult bookstores while hubby is made to watch and stand guard. If She finds a big cock She likes She may invite him to join Her. One cuckold hubby said that "a guy shoved a cock through the hole that was twice the size of my cock and She eagerly sucked him off and invited him our van outside." He said he watched for 30 minutes as he "fucked Her silly," and that he "had my first creampie that night." According to another hubby, "Nothing compares to the divine humiliation of knowing that your beautiful wife can be corrupted by a superior cock."

Exotic dance clubs

Topless and nude dance clubs are teaming with horny men exposed to succulent female flesh that is teasingly just out of reach. This is a great-probably overlooked-place for a cuckold couple to find men. It is even better if the cuckold hubby is married to an exotic dancer. She can cuckold him relentlessly every day with men or women. One cuckold hubby married to a hot exotic dancer says that She used to get him hot and bothered by telling him about Her flirtatious adventures at Her club when She came home, but now he says "She gets the guys off, lets them cum all over Her, and drinks and parties with them." He thinks She is having a "call-girl" fantasy.

Swing clubs

One hubby says his wife "makes me watch Her get picked up at bars" and "watch Her at swing clubs." She takes Her men to hotels or goes to their place afterwards, and then gives Her cuckold hubby the details later after "jumping on for a face ride." She also teases Her cuckold hubby to the brink of orgasm several times a day for the week leading up to Her adventures.

Out of town meetings

One attractive business woman in Her 30s says that "the bar scene is too dangerous and too difficult." She prefers to find married men at out-of-town business seminars. She takes sexy lingerie-stockings and tight corsets-with Her and wears high heels to show off Her stunning legs and body. She generally picks up an attractive married man and enjoys sex with him every night while there. She often calls Her husband and teases him over the phone while stroking Her Lover's cock and preparing him to fuck Her. Another wife who attends out-of-town conferences likes to go to predominantly Black bars with Her colleagues. She doesn't pick guys up for safety reasons, but She gets so worked up from dancing with them and teasing them that She calls Her regular Black Lovers immediately when She gets home, dresses very slutty, and has Her hubby chauffeur Her on Her dates. Another wife was picked up by a Black man at an off-site conference, and after he felt Her up on the dance floor, She ended up in his room and She said "he fucked me for an hour and five orgasms." She said, "His well-hung friend also showed up and gave me two more orgasms with torrid anal sex." She said that after that She saw them every night at the conference while Her domesticated cuckold hubby was home "holding down the fort and cleaning house." Now, She says, "I am getting blacked with more dick then the law allows," and that She "has never had so much dick in my well-stretched pussy in my life!"

Parties

One hubby watched his wife pick up a muscular hunk at a party after slow dancing with him that he described was "more like foreplay than dancing." He chauffeured them back to their house while they made out in the back seat. His wife made hubby sleep on the couch while She and Her new Lover used their marital bed. Hubby said "I just laid there on the couch and listened as some stranger was in there trying to knock my wife up."

Other scenarios include vacations in exotic locales like Jamaica or Las Vegas or business travel by wives who get lonely on the road.

Despite the risk, if the polls are to be believed, strangers-especially Black strangers-are a hot cuckold fantasy. Best friends and ex-boyfriends also seemed to be high on the list. Perhaps not surprisingly, ex-husbands were a little lower. Maybe there are too many complicated factors involved with ex-husbands. With all the stories about them, bosses and co-workers also scored a little lower than expected. They were up there, but not at the top. Though there was one wife who said, "I am a total submissive to my husband's boss-a large, handsome Black man. I am the main reason my husband keeps his job, but he has accepted this, and is submissive as well."

Trailing the pack as might be expected were relatives and other women. Most hubbies realize, however, that once their wife starts down the addictive cuckolding path they no longer have any say in whom She takes as a Lover.

From the ads:

The following are edited ad excerpts from wives and cuckold husbands seeking strangers.

Longhaired submissive blonde wants to be "behind the green door" serving a small gathering of aggressive hard Black men. Hubby watches...

Traveling married professional businesswoman tired of lonely nights in downtown hotel rooms has a real weakness for Black men in suits. I would love to feel your big hard cock in the bar, on the dance floor, even in the taxi on the way back to my hotel. I will take your seed however you wish me to take it, and will even service your friends and business colleagues in front of you...

Married petite brown haired female anxious to meet a hard Black male who will share me with his friends for a weekend. I can travel to you and hubby is aware, but is not present unless asked...

White well-built wife visits Las Vegas with cuckold hubby. He loves to dress me up in mini skirts, high heels, and stockings so well hung Black men and their friends can take me out on the town and work me over while he watches helplessly...

Insatiable wanton Black-cock-loving slut wife will do anything for hard, thick, Black cock. Use me, inject your hot cum in me, then invite your Black friends over for more...

Exhibitionist submissive female is total slut for Black military men. I will show my tits, pussy, and ass to you and your friends at parties and clubs. Will drive around in the nude to show everyone I am your whore and will take all hot cum from Black cocks bareback...

Blonde wife with big tits and ass has hubby who likes to watch as I go out to a bar with no panties or bra and get picked up by aggressive Black men. You may play with me, dance with me, kiss me, feel me up, and have me do whatever you ask as he watches from afar. Then you can take me to a nearby motel to be an all night whore for you and your friends...

Pretty brunette wife seeks 2 or 3 attractive and aggressive Black men-the Blacker the better-to take control of me for the evening at local motels while making humiliated cuckold hubby sit and watch you "force" me to do your bidding...

Dirty married slut totally cuckolds and humiliates submissive hubby. Seeking one or more aggressive Black men with proper dicks and imagination to tart me up, show me off, then roughly fuck my pussy and ass at a hotel and then walk away. Not looking for long term-just perverted weekend whoring...

I am a total slut and have reserved my white married pussy exclusively for big Black cock. I love to feel cum spurting against the back of my pussy so I always go bareback. Need satisfaction from Black stud Lovers at least 2-3 times a week. Cuckold hubby may or may not be present...

Cute petite blonde slut lusts for nasty bareback sex with hung Black guys. Hubby videos but doesn't get any of this white pussy any more. Willing to please all available and sexy Blacks and their friends in my area. Also love to be shown off as a pure slut at Black bars...

Blonde professional in-shape married woman travels all over the Southeast and has a huge fetish for Black cock. Love wild sex-groups, oral, anal-with well endowed Black guys.. Cuckold hubby is sometimes present, sometimes not...

Married and total slut for Black with little sissy wimp hubby-he is totally denied-want well-hung Blacks who can travel to me. I need a proper fucking no less than twice a week. Sissy hubby cleans me up afterwards...

Sexy wife with cuckold husband wants to meet Black men at nearby motels. No friendship, no romance, just straight to the point fucking. Would love to be left tied up and fucked by all that happen by...

Tall, in-shape, slut wife wants to meet attractive, heavy cumming Black man (or men) for nightly sex while visiting Las Vegas. Hubby may watch...

Naughty little white married young slut vacationing in Jamaica with older cuckold hubby wants to suck all the juice out of big Black chocolate dick sticks. I eat it all and never spit out...

Pretty white wife with 36DDs is a slut for Black cock and loves to hook up with very well-hung (9"+, the thicker the better) Black males while away for a weekend of fun. Love really hard, deep, fucking and cum all over. Will meet at a hotel lounge or bar. Hubby only watches...

Young white wife married to a wealthy older man makes frequent business trips with hubby. Really, really need handsome Black men with friends who will fuck my shaved pussy senseless, make me swallow their cum, fuck my ass and generally treat me like a white-trash whore while hubby is attending business meetings. He cleans up later...

Insatiable nasty redhead wife with VERY hungry pussy opens my legs for any hung Black man that wants me. Love hot cum, gang bangs, and double penetration. Take me to a Black bar and announce my availability to every one. Hubby watches and licks and sucks all the hot cum afterwards and even sucks cocks for those who want it...

Hubby with fit blonde aerobics instructor wife only gets to watch as She submits to strangers for oral sex and even intercourse if the situation is right...

Tall, blue-eyed wife with long blonde hair is a total slut for Black cock and can't get enough. I have big squeezable tits with large sensitive nipples and love to go out dressed like a slut in tight short minis, low cut tops, thigh highs, and spike heels with no panties or bra. My pussy is always wet and hubby likes to watch me suck and fuck 9+ inches of one or more very thick strange Black cocks and beg to be filled with hot cum...

Dark haired wife looking for handsome well-built Black men to pick me up in a bar dressed as a slut, seduce me and make me your outrageous fuck toy for the night. Enjoy dirty talk, forced oral, spanking, and hard fucking. Sometimes hubby is allowed to be present; sometimes not...

Pretty, in-shape married white wife with large natural breasts seeks well-hung (9+") attractive in-shape Black Bull to take me out and show me off in bars and clubs as his sexily dressed white slut. Cuckold hubby gets the details later...

I love to dress and act like a whore to humiliate cuckold hubby. My skirts are hemmed so short they barely cover my ass and I never wear panties. I also wear very high heels and a transparent blouse with no bra. I love being almost naked in clubs and bars and in public, to expose myself to strangers and sexually serve them...

Hubby dresses me slutty-high-heels, dark lace top, thigh-hi stockings, miniskirt, see-through blouse. He likes to watch me suck to completion, take bareback sex in my pussy and ass from super-hung Black men and groups...

I'm married to a white hubby, but I love big Black cock. I love to be humiliated and have my pussy filled like a nasty fuck pig by one or more well-hung Black fuck machines. Hubby will be there for the first meeting but is not allowed to join in unless asked...

From the polls:

CUCKOLDS: WHAT DO YOU LIKE YOUR WIFE'S LOVERS TO DO TO HER?

Cucks with a say in the matter would like a stranger to fuck Her in front of them as their most selected activity. Not far behind though is letting another man undress Her, or undressing Her himself for another man to enjoy. Almost as popular is taking Her to a bar and letting Her dance with other men or letting Black men fondle Her. Some cucks said they will go find men to bring home to Her and a few will let their buddies, co-workers, or even Her ex-husband fondle and fuck Her in front of him. Lower on the list, but still significant is letting Her be the entertainment for an all male party, the hostess for Black studs, or even stripping nude for strangers. Many cucks, however, realize that they don't have a say in the matter, so they must let Her do what She wants.

CUCKOLDS: WHO IS THE HOTTEST TO BE CUCKOLDED BY?

It was hottest for cucks by far (more than 2 to 1) for Her to cuckold him with a stranger. Next in line was a boss (his or hers), and ex of hers, or a friend (his or hers). Only a few said co-worker, another woman, or the cuck's father or brother. None said relative. Many cucks also find it hot for Her to be with a younger (18-25) man.

CUCKOLDS: WHAT TURNS YOU ON THE MOST ABOUT OTHER MEN AND YOUR WIFE?

When it comes to seeing other men with their wives, cuckolds were turned on most by Her having sex with strangers followed by "large cocked" Black men. They most like to see their wife being fondled, kissed, and undressed by another man. Her having sex with old boyfriends in Her marriage bed is preferred over co-workers and ex-husbands. Some would like Her to expose herself publicly or show off with his friends-even going to a Black bar only dressed in a short skirt. Some would also be turned on seeing Her as the only woman at an all male party or the only woman in a hot tub with a group of men.

CUCKOLDS: HAS SHE CUCKOLDED YOU WITH AN EX-BOYFRIEND OR EX-HUSBAND?

By nearly 2-to-1 most cucks (63%) said their wife has cuckolded him with an ex-boyfriend or ex-husband. (Perhaps She is re-visiting a pre-existing bond where there was some love between them and the sex was good, or maybe She regrets breaking up with him and wants to see if the spark is still there. Or, perhaps She is just tweaking cuckold hubby's jealousy and giving him an extra dose of humiliation and something extra to worry about.)

CUCKOLDS: HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF YOUR WIFE FUCKED YOUR BEST FRIEND?

Most cucks (57%) said they would be excited by it and would love it. In fact, many (26%) said She is doing exactly that already. If not, quite a few (14%) dream that She will fuck him; while others (14%) realize that they really have no say in the matter since they must "do as I'm told." Some (10%) said they would get upset.

Next time: "Strict Wives-More than a Dose of Humiliation"

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