Chapter 5
Strict Wives-More than A Dose of Humiliation
"Men go absolutely ga-ga when confronted with a take-charge woman. Sexually aggressive women get what they want in life from their men, and that goes way beyond the bedroom. By exploiting this fact, you can have him on his knees begging to allow him to kiss your feet, wait on you, clean for you, even humiliate himself for you." (Dominant woman).
Not all wives who cuckold their hubbies are dominant, and not all cuckold hubbies are submissive, but there are many who are. Cuckolding wives who are dominant or strict are in charge. Some are female supremacists. Some just don't just cuckold you-they chastise you, feminize you, sissify you, fuck you with a strap-on, domesticate you, and discipline you thoroughly, often with a paddle or cane. They may control you totally-not just your orgasms (if they ever allow you one), but your spending, what you wear, when, where, and what you eat, how you talk and behave, etc. Obedience is not an option. Before a truly dominant woman is through with you, you ARE a slave, and WILL obey them, or anyone they choose, FULLY. One strict wife said that when She gives Her submissive sissy cuckold slave hubby a "proper" whipping that afterwards he always drops to his knees and crawls to Her feet and licks and kisses them with such an intense loving passion that it sends tingling waves of pleasure throughout Her whole body and that She can even orgasm from it. Needless to say, for these strict wives, a good whipping (and maybe a strap-on dildo) are powerful aphrodisiacs.
One submissive hubby affirms this when he says, "There is no greater joy than being totally at the mercy of a powerful capable person such as a dominant female." By dominating their hubby some wives even believe they are doing their part to create a "new world order." A few even go to great lengths to accomplish this. One very dominant wife says, "My husband surrendered all control to me and now lives as a stunning transsexual slave catering to me and my Lovers." Her husband has been placed on a strict diet to "improve his figure" and has been subjected to laser hair removal, hormone treatments, and even breast implants!
Most dominant wives still love their husbands, but for many, cuckolding is still in the picture. The philosophy of many dominant women is expressed by one who says: "If you love to humiliate your husband and totally control him, cuckolding is the way to go. Just be sure to include your hubby in all that you do and have fun with it." As one dominant wife says, "I date and fuck other men because, as a dominant wife, I have that right." She goes on to say, "My motivation is humiliating and dominating my husband, so I make it fun for him." She indulges in the usual cuckolding activities of having Her hubby turn Her into a "total knockout"-giving Her a candlelit bubble bath, washing Her all over, picking out the sexiest outfits and panties, and helping Her dress, and helping Her with Her makeup. However, as a dominant woman She also puts him into a chastity device and gives him a list of sexy chores like "washing out my panties by hand," or "caring for my leather clothes," or "cleaning my toys," while She is out on Her dates. Typical of many dominant women, she also incorporates whippings, strap-on, and lots of oral service and humiliation in their play.
Cuckolding scenarios
"Nothing can intensify my passion more than tyranny, cruelty, and especially the faithlessness of a beautiful woman." ("Venus in Furs," Leopold von Sacher-Masoch)
Dominant women can be very creative in devising cuckolding activities that are certain to add to their husband's humiliation and her "fun." Here are some samples of cuckolding scenarios:
One wife had the ingenious idea of taking Her hubby and Lover on a "cuckold cruise." She says, "My husband serves as a slave to both my Lover and me. He sleeps on the floor by the bed and is allowed to listen and watch as I get fucked over and over. He cleans my body and licks my pussy and ass hole after watching me get screwed." She goes on to say that the close quarters of the cruise ship and the complete freedom She has to publicly humiliate Her hubby makes it "very intense." She has taught Her hubby that "It is the right of a dominant woman to be pleased sexually, no matter how many men it takes to do it."
Sometimes strict wives are submissive to their Lovers while being dominant to hubby. As one dominant wife says, "I am submissive to Black men, but dominant to my white boy husband. Black men can have what ever they want, including my ass and mouth."
It is not unusual for cuckolding wives to have their hubbies buy them lingerie and sexy outfits and prepare them for their dates. Strict wives, however, may take this further. One dominant woman makes Her hubby find well-endowed aggressive Black men and call Her "Princess" at all times. She denies hubby sexually, but allows him "to worship my pussy or just look at my body." When Her submissive hubby begs properly for sex She fucks him in the ass with a large Black strap-on.
Dominant women often deny sex to their husbands, believing as one woman said, "A horny husband is an attentive husband." To accomplish this, She says, "I keep him horny and jealous 24/7; the less you give your cuckold husband, the more he will want you." She keeps him horny by making herself very sexually desirable in hot fetish outfits and being very sexually active with Black cock, while denying hubby. To make Her point, She tells hubby, "White women are here to sexually serve Black men; white men are here to worship and serve us."
One dominant woman got a Gay Black Lover for Her husband. Sometimes when She goes out on a date She makes Her hubby dress up like a "tart" and beg "his" Lover to come over so he can "tongue his ass and lick and suck his cock, and be his whore for the night." While serving him, She insists that he be "the best girlfriend a guy-Gay or straight-could ever have."
Some strict wives tie their hubbies up before they fuck their Lovers. Hubby may get to watch or may be blindfolded so he can only listen. One dominant wife ties Her hubby spread-eagled on the twin bed in an adjoining spare bedroom and mounts him for about a minute while Her laughing Lover looks on. She jumps off while "he is moaning and begging to cum." She says, "I want him to know what he is missing." He can hear Her fucking Her Lover in the main bedroom while his dick is still throbbing, but he can't do anything about it.
Another ties Her husband securely to a chair with a good view of the bed and gives him Viagra to keep him "good and hard" while She fucks Her Black Lover in front of him.
Some dominant women get bored with the same old routine for humiliation and want to step things up. One very dominant woman who has been cuckolding Her submissive hubby for over a decade says She "has taken him to the next level." She says, "I converted my bi-curious wimp into a cock-loving, cock sucking faggot." She says She delights in sending him into Gay saunas with orders to suck cocks while She is out with Her Lover or just goes shopping for the afternoon.
Black dildos are a favorite of many dominant women. Some make their hubbies buy them extra large ones and make them fuck them with it. Since it is much larger and thicker than his cock they can point out the difference that a big Black cock makes to add to his humiliation as She moans Her way to multiple orgasms.
Another strict wife said that She always insists that Her husband meet Her prospective Black Lovers before She does to suck his cock and gauge his open-mindedness. She says, "That way hub can fill me in on cock size and how he cums and tastes, and I can give my body to the Black man to do with as he wants." Her hubby prepares all the meals and runs any errands while Her Black Lovers are visiting so they can "use Her when and how they want."
As part of keeping things fun, another dominant cuckolding wife gave Her husband a brunette blow-up sex doll "to keep the blonde one I got him last year company and to let him have some variety" while She was out with Her Lover.
Little humiliations that emphasize Her dominance are also popular. One wife makes her hubby "feed me like a slave would to Cleopatra." Another likes Her hubby to accompany them on shopping trips, walking a step or two behind Her laden down with Her packages and rushing forward when needed to open doors for Her.
One wife makes Her cuckold hubby dress up as a sexy French maid and serve his friends at Friday night poker parties. She takes his former place at the poker table and teases the men and has sex with them while he watches and serves in silence. He is totally humiliated by the knowledge that "my friends now know they can fuck my wife whenever they want to."
Spanking is also a favorite activity of many dominant wives. One submissive cuckold husband said, "My wife gets very turned on by spanking me." She dresses in a short skirt and skimpy top and strips him naked and bends him over the bed. He says, "She often likes to spank me just before She leaves for a date with Her regular boyfriend." On a few occasions he says, "She has removed Her panties before going out because they got so wet and She goes out without any on." Spanking has become such an art that specialized paddles, straps, and canes are even available from sources such as the "Disciplinary Wives Club." With names like "School Marm," "Holy Terror," "The Dominator," and "The Stinger," they are sure to keep an errant submissive cuckold in "his place."
A surge in confidence and a shift in power
"Women's power lies in men's passion, and She knows how to use this power, if he fails to understand it. He has only one choice: to be the slave of women. No sooner does he give way then the neck is under the yoke, and then the whip will begin to fall." ("Venus in Furs," Leopold von Sacher-Masoch)
Women who become dominant in their relationship often experience an increase in confidence and self-esteem. As one woman puts it, "As I grew as a dominant woman and took charge of my marriage, other people noticed an increase in my confidence and positive attitude."
Cuckolding often plays a key role in the shift of power. One cuckold husband put it this way: "I have never been able to quite see myself as my wife's equal from the night of that initial cuckolding to the present day. The cuckolding experience has elevated my wife to almost Goddess status in my eyes."
Another submissive hubby said, "My wife has developed into such a sexual woman and She loves to flaunt Her sexuality in front of me. She likes to buy sexy lingerie and fetish outfits. She walks with a self-confidence and sexuality that I never noticed prior to Her blossoming into a dominant woman." He says that while it is frustrating to be denied sexual access to such a desirable woman, he never takes Her for granted anymore. When he does get the privilege to orally worship Her after Her Lovers have had Her, he says, "It is so intense and special I feel that I have just been granted permission to touch and pleasure a model or a movie star."
Some women are really turned on by their newfound power and take it to extremes. One dominant woman who cuckolds Her hubby says, "I especially enjoy the power I feel over men." She says She went from a conservative housewife to total female domination. She makes Her submissive cuckold hubby greet Her Lovers at the door wearing "only a pair of frilly feminine panties," and then padlocks him into a covered cage in their home dungeon with a cordless phone so She can check on him and tease him while she is out with Her Lover. She also removes Her wet panties and tosses them to him before She goes out so he can be reminded of what he is missing and how turned on She is to be seeing Her Lover. Sometimes She brings Her Lovers home so Her caged hubby can hear their lovemaking in the master bedroom. Other times She has Her hubby cook dinner and serve them or chauffeur them around while She makes out with Her Lover in the back seat. For variety-once She is comfortable with Her Lover-She may let hubby watch from the corner or side of the bed. This allows them to make humiliating comments and for hubby to clean Her afterwards. When She wants to be kind to Her hubby She says, "Sometimes I allow him to jack off after we are through having sex, and then he goes right back into the cage." She likes to change the scenario around to keep him guessing.
Which comes first-cuckolding or domination?
Some women dominate their hubby first before cuckolding him. For them, cuckolding is just a natural extension of their domination and humiliation of hubby, and a way to drive him deeper into submission to Her. One such woman who set cuckolding as Her next goal said, "The spankings, the discipline, the forced feminization, his domestic and sexual service of me, all became more intense and exciting due to my new goal." She finally cuckolded him with a young 22-year-old college student from a local community college class and says that She became a "wild woman" with Her new young Lover. The benefits of cuckolding are twofold: besides the great sex from Her new Lover, She also gets more attention from Her submissive hubby after subjecting him to humiliation and teasing about how he "didn't measure up." She says, "My husband no longer takes me for granted; he has doubled his efforts in serving me."
Others feel that being bitchy is the essence of being dominant and that cuckolding is part of that. As one dominant woman said, "I also cuckold my husband because I am a selfish bitch. I enjoy having sex with another man while I sexually deny and humiliate my husband."
Sometimes however, cuckolding precedes domination and is a natural outgrowth of the new power that a cuckolding woman feels. One woman said that after She finally fucked another man and the initial shock wore off, that She felt "so sexy and powerful," that "the time had finally come to humiliate the man I love-my husband." She tied him spread-eagled to the bed, taped his mouth shut, then dressed to kill like a "sweet-smelling hot bitch" in leather. While he was tied up She teased him and told him She was fucking some one much better and that he was a wimp and a loser. He was so excited and worried that the next day he brought Her flowers. Now, She torments him deliciously by allowing him inside Her only long enough to come close to orgasm then has him pull out before he is able to cum.
From the ads
Here are some edited ad excerpts from dominant women:
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CUCKOLDS: IS S&M A PART OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP?From the polls:
WIVES: HOW WOULD YOU PROFOUNDLY HUMILIATE YOUR HUSBAND?
The top ten ways dominant cuckolding wives would humiliate their hubbies were:
1. Make him suck my Lover's cum from my pussy
2. Make him sexually serve my Lover(s)
3. Fuck my Lover(s) in front of him
4. Get gangbanged while hubby is tied up and watching
5. Show videos of me and my Lovers at parties
6. Make him subservient to my Lover(s)
7. Laugh at his small dick
8. Make him wear lingerie
9. Fuck his friends
10. Fuck his boss
Other activities with high humiliation ratings included in order: fucking Black men, taking photos and showing them to his friends, telling him that only my Lovers make me cum, making him wear a chastity belt for long periods of time, never having sex with my hubby again, making him wash and wax my Lover's car while we fuck, and staying out all weekend with my Lover.
CUCKOLDS: WHAT EXTREME FORM OF HUMILIATION DO YOU CRAVE?
The top ten most humiliating things cuckolds craved were:
1. Eating Her Lover's cum from Her pussy or ass
2. Serving Her Lover orally or anally
3. Being turned into a sissy slave for Her and Her Lovers
4. Having Her laugh at my dick while She embraces Her Lover
5. Having Her laugh at me while fucking Her Lover
6. Watching Her get fucked by a well-hung man
7. Having my wife get pregnant from Her Lover
8. Making me get Her ready for Her dates
9. Watching Her get gangbanged by numerous well-hung men
10. Making me find men for Her
Also mentioned and scoring high on the humiliation scale were: having to wear a chastity belt, getting fucked by Her Lover in the ass, being sent to the spare room while She fucks Her Lover in our marital bed, having Her fuck all my friends and my boss, having Her tell all our friends that She cuckolds me.
DOMINANT WIVES: HOW SHOULD YOUR CUCKOLD HUBBY BE TREATED?
Being a cuckold to a very dominant woman often means being Her slave. The ways dominant wives would teat their cuckold slave hubby were:
1. Made to learn how to suck my Lover's cock and take him in the ass
2. Made into my total slave
3. Made to do all the housework by hand
4. Be completely feminized
5. All of the above
DOMINANT WIVES AND CUCKOLDS: WHO DOMINATES AND HUMILATES WHO?
Indicating that cuckold hubby involvement is a strong component of the cuckolding lifestyle, the top role mentioned (38%) was that the wife and Her Bull actively dominate and humiliate cuckold hubby together. Tied for second (20%) with half as many votes each were Her Bull dominating and humiliating both of them or just focusing on sex between the Bull and the cuckold's wife with no domination. Close behind (16%) was allowing cuckold hubby to watch as the Bull dominates his wife. In last place (6%) was the Bull dominating the wife without cuckold hubby involvement.
DOMINANT WIVES: WHY DO YOU LOVE TO CUCKOLD YOUR HUBBY:
The number one reason (34%) was "loving the control I have over him." Not far behind and tied for number two (21%) was "to humiliate or punish him," and "he does not deserve the privilege of being anything but a cuckold." Some (14%) said they love to humiliate and punish him with the help of Her Black Lover and telling him that Her Black Lover is far superior (11%).
SUBMISSIVE HUSBANDS: WHAT KIND OF BDSM DO YOU PREFER?
This poll may give a clue at least to some of the activities that submissive cuckolds may crave. The top choices in order of preference (most mentions) were: bondage, strap-on use, cock and ball torture (CBT), humiliating display, verbal abuse, 24/7 domination, feminization, whipping, foot worship, and public humiliation.
WIVES: WHAT IS THE ULTIMATE THING TO DO TO A CUCKOLD?
Here are the top choices in order of most popular:
1. Force him to lick you and suck your Lover to get ready
2. Force him to lick you and suck your Lover clean
3. Force him to suck your Lover until he cums
4. Force him to take your Lover up the ass
(Tie) Force him to lick only you after your Lover cums
5. Force him to lick your Lover's balls and ass while inside you
6. Force him to dress as a woman and do anything you or your Lover ask
(Tie) Let him watch without saying anything
7. Force him to listen outside your room
(Tie) Force him to dress as a maid and do the top 5 choices
8. Force him to ask men in public to be both yours and his Lover
9. To go out in public as a woman with you and your Lover
(Tie) To let your Lover move in and force your cuckold to live as a woman with you and your Lover
Next time: "Orgasm Denial and Chastity"