A section for white wives to detail some special act, technique, etc she uses to pleasure her black man. This way the white wives who visit the Cavern can share sexual techniques they use in bed with their black men to give them special pleasure and thrills. They can share this information in much the same way as married women swap recipies for cooking and baking. Of course the black men will benefit as interesting and innovative methods of giving them pleasure are exchanged by the white wives. They could talk about the perfect fantasy evening they set up for their black man, or the first time they did some act like rimming him, or anal, or swallowing. Remember, wives only to submit to this section!

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I’m Monica… a 27 year old petite totally submissive married white slut. My white wimp husband is no longer allowed any sexual contact with me… but I do absolutely everything for the Black men I serve. I’ve had several Black Masters, and they know what I mean by “everything”. It means not only that I serve him, but of course I do it all for all of his friends too. I use no birth control and all of them can always fuck me without condoms. Its always bareback for Master and all of his friends, and yes that includes up the ass too. Of course I suck cock for all of them, with deep throat, licking their assholes and guaranteed swallowing of absolutely everything from absolutely everybody all the time, even for large groups. My husband knows all of this but no longer even gets to be present.

Master’s friends of course know of my “full service” promise, and they have all demanded (and gotten) all of the services many times. What they seem to like the most is fucking me up the ass bareback, and making sure that I get down on my knees to them to “swallow all the sticky jizz”.

They know that swallowing cum is really not easy for me, especially when Master arranges a large group for me to suck off. I can start getting the gag reflex sometimes even after the first load, and I think that seeing me still choking everything down till the group is finished gives them a special thrill. After I’ve done the “swallow everything” service for them they can see that I really do get sick to my stomach. I know (Master has even told me) that for some of them hearing me in the bathroom throwing up afterward is one of the kicks they really want.

With my queasy stomach being sort of a turn on for Master and his friends, Master told me of new service I was to start performing for them. He seemed very hot about it… he told me that a couple of his friends suggested it and they seemed to be super hot to start getting this kink. I knew immediately which friends probably suggested it. Considering the source, I knew it would be something very degrading and would involve me swallowing. I thought to myself “I knew this would happen and here it comes… I’m going to have to start accepting piss too.”

I was relieved to find out I was wrong about the piss, but it turns out I was right about who wanted it, that it would be very degrading and it would mean more swallowing.

I don’t know how common this is (I had never heard of it) and some of you might want to tell me if you’ve done this for anyone before. I do now do this for the group too, and when word spread about me providing this kink believe me EVERYBODY was just so eager to get thing arranged to do it to me. Ready? Master and his friends now regularly also spit in my mouth! Master made it very clear to me that the “everything swallowed” guarantee would include this too. He trained me as to exactly what to do when anyone walked up to me, grabbed my nipples and orders “Gob time”. I need to lower myself to be an easy target, to tip my head way back and open my mouth really WIDE. Tongue out but down to expose the back of my throat, and definitely the throat must be OPEN. Master said “They should be able to spit back to your tonsils”. And just as when I’m taking and swallowing cum there must be eye contact at all times, I must hold the mess in my mouth until ordered to swallow. They now do this a LOT especially together with suck off parties. I do get sick more, but this is more intense for the guys because they are right in front of my face staring into my eyes while I struggle with the swallow!

Anyone else do this?




How do most black men like us white wifes to dress for them? I have noticed lots of the ladies on this site are dressed in stockings or hose in the pictures.



How should a white wife dress? As the Slut she is , of course!

As a WC who plays, we would suggest that the standard uniform is, well, not standard. It depends on where you are meeting your date(s). Are you going directly to a hotel room? Or are you going to dinner or a club for drinks? If its directly to the room for fun, well, let your spirit be your guide. Lingerie is fun and the guys seem to enjoy it. Remember that at some point it will most likely be gone, either removed or torn off!

If you are meeting at a club or restaurant, the venue will dictate just how risque' you can get. For sure, Stockings or stay-up's, High Heels (the highest you can manage) and a revealing skirt. The skirt doesn't have to be the shortest possible, but should be revealing enough to keep your date(s) attention and attract some looks from others in the room. Panties or not, We prefer thongs. Bras or not, your preference. Blouse when wearing a skirt. Very snug, a few too many buttons unbuttoned and sheer as you dare. Dress? A zipper which goes both ways or buttons from top to bottom. Leave the buttons unbuttoned from the bottom up to just below the top of your stockings. When you walk, most of your leg should show and the tops of your stockings too! An anklet on the right ankle is correct. An engraved tag telling just what you are is a very nice touch.

Then again, if you are a shamless slut, let it all hang out. Push the limit and just don't get arrested. After all, not many people have been thrown out of adult theaters. We have! LOL

T & T (BOOM!)




The following are suggestions for the woman who has made the decision (along with her husband's support) to be involved in the hot wife/cuckold lifestyle. I think these suggestions work well with all men but my own experience is derived from my dating of black men exclusively.


(Points to Remember)

a) You are no longer dressing for yourself. You are no longer dressing for your husband. You are no longer dressing for other women as most women are prone to do. You are dressing for other men. You are dressing to attract and please those men.

a) Dressing to please and attract other men takes more time and work but it will pay off tremendously in amount of attention you receive and how it affects your own hot wife attitude. You should always keep in mind what the men you are trying to attract will probably like but in general follow this simple rule when choosing what to wear: Think dress first, skirt second and pants only as a last resort. This will be a radical change for many women but it's important to remember that most men (and virtually all black men) prefer their women in dresses as opposed to pants. Dresses and skirts are sexier to most men and they provide easier access in erotic situations. Until I started this lifestyle, I wore pants the great majority of the time but it's rare now that I step into a public situation when I am not in a dress or skirt. You never know when you will have the opportunity to attract that certain man and you need to be dressed for the opportunity when it comes. The good news is that the lifestyle will probably make you feel like dressing up more and the more you wear dresses and skirts, the more you will find yourself wanting to.

b) What you wear under your dress or skirt is as important as the outfit itself. All men like lingerie but black men love lingerie. The colors and style your lover(s) may want you to wear will vary but in general, here are some suggestions ands rules to follow:
1. Always wear matching or at least coordinated lingerie.
2. Thongs or French cut panties or the best, no panties at all, are the most preferable. If you are with your lover on a more consistent basis, no panties is the best option.
3. Always wear hosiery unless your lover tells you not to.
4. Always wear stockings with a garter belt or thigh highs when in the presence of black men. Men in general don't care for pantyhose and black men absolutely hate them. If you are like me, you probably have worn pantyhose your whole life. Trust me when I say however, that stockings will make you feel far sexier and more feminine and they provide your lover an easier access as well as a sexier sight. Once you get used to wearing them; you will probably have no trouble giving up pantyhose. Seamed stockings are the ultimate for attracting men. You will always get a lot of attention in clubs if you wear them and if you dare to wear them in public in the daytime, men will drool.
5. The only shoes you should ever wear in public are high heels. This will take some getting used to as well but men love them. 3-4 inches are fine for work. Try for 4-5¨ heels for dates.
6. Anklets worn on the ankle are a good sign in clubs that you are a willing hot wife looking for men. Always wear your wedding ring. Black men love knowing that they are going to fuck a white man's wife!


Flirting and Teasing:

1. In a situation where you are trying to catch a potential lover's eye; make sure to make plenty of eye contact with him and smile.
2. Show lots of leg. Cross and uncross your legs and if you find that you are very attracted to him, eventually let it ride high enough so that he can see that you are wearing stockings and garters. In black clubs, a white woman wearing stockings and garters is taken as a sign that she is there to get fucked. And of course you are.
3. Apply and reapply lipstick. The men want to see signs that you can't wait to suck their cocks and lipstick is a great way to send that signal.
4. Never miss the opportunity to drop something and bend over.
5. Touch and smile.


1. If a man puts his hand up your dress, whisper in his ear and ask if him if he would like you to remove your panties.
2. If he compliments your dress, tell him you wore it hoping to meet a man like him.
3. Never miss an opportunity to tell him how sexy he is and how sexy and feminine he makes you feel.
4. Sex in unusual places is wonderful but if your lover suggests a place you are uncomfortable, suggest an alternative and tell him much you want to do it with him. A few places I have tried and highly recommend are:
a) Sucking your lover's cock in the back of a cab.
b) Back rooms or managers offices at clubs.
c) Restrooms are hot but can be risky and even dangerous. Choose wisely.
d) Stairwells and parking garages.
e) At home in your bed and let your husband watch it.
5. Always leave on your stockings and high heels during sex unless your lover asks you to remove them. Most men find it sexier.


1. Condoms. I know, I hate them too but sometimes they are necessary.
2. An extra pair of stockings. Runs are never acceptable.
3. Lube.
4. Business cards to give to men you meet.


1. Never dress for your husband the way you do for your lovers. I never wear a dress for my husband unless the situation absolutely demands it and if it does I wear pantyhose under it and low heels. He needs to know a woman dresses to please real men, not him.
2. Never miss an opportunity to have your husband help you get dressed for your lover. Making him buy lingerie or dresses for you to wear for your lover is also a good way to drive him wild.
3. Make him wash and rinse your lingerie when you get home from "black" dates and he must keep your wardrobe in order.
4. Make him do housework when you are out with other men.
5. Always tell him how wonderful your black lovers are in bed and how much you enjoy pleasing them.
6. Have 2 or 3 things you do for your lovers that you won't do for your husband and make sure your husband knows it. For instance, since dating black men I no longer suck my husband's cock and anal sex and facials are something I have never allowed my husband. They are however routine with my black lovers.
7. Call your husband while you are with another man (men). Make him listen or have your lover tell him all the things he plans to do to you.

These are just a few ideas and suggestions I have accumulated from my own experiences. I would love to hear from men, women and cuckolds with any questions or suggestions they might have. Good luck!