As you might have guessed by now, that was easier said than done. The last couple times I had gone out with Dan were very emotional and I had to make a decision to end our relationship before things got out of hand.

The phone rang and I ran out of the shower to answer it and when I answered, I was shocked to hear Dan's voice on the other end. We talked for almost two hours that night and he finally talked me into flying down to Florida to see him.

I told him I would let him know once I could make arrangements to come and visit him. I had to coordinate my trip with one of my husband's business trips and although my husband knew that I was flying out of town to meet with someone, I didn't tell him who it was at the time.

Not trusting myself alone with Dan once again, I made arrangements with a friend of ours to fly down with me. He is the husband of my very close friend and they enjoy the same sort of lifestyle as us so if knew what the situation was going to be once we got to Florida.

As a matter of fact, he mentioned that he would bring two video cameras down with us so he could record everything. The only thing I didn't mention to him was the fact that the black man I was going to meet was still in love with me and I really didn't want him to bring his cameras but I didn't want to tell him the whole situation.

We had everything all set for the trip and my husband wished me luck and to be very careful before he left that morning for his trip and I told him I would see him in five days.

Later that morning our friend Mark picked me up and we left for the airport along with all his video equipment. We got to our hotel room and I called Dan to let him know I was in town and gave him the room number.

Mark had the room next to mine but had his video equipment ready to go in my room before he left and waited for my call to let him know it was time.

(TO BE CONTINUED)