My first happened about a year after my husband passed away. I had taken to chatting online with several men who were anxious to meet me. One was a younger black man who was very persistent despite my continually declining his offers to meet. I was to go out on my first date one night after I finished work with a white guy I had been chatting with. He called me at the last minute to say that something had come up and he had to cancel. (I found out later on that the "something" was his wife finding out what he was up to. Of course he had told me he was divorced.)
Disappointed I decided as a knee-jerk reaction to call the persistent black guy. He told me to pick him up at his work. I met him there about 11 PM. We didn't really have a place to go since I lived 30 miles away from work and he lived with his parents. So we headed for his friend's apartment. His friend was working but would meet us there and give him the key. We parked in an alley alongside his apartment building. It started to rain heavily.
While waiting (it was going to be about an hour his friend had said) we started kissing and making out. Soon he had me out of my top and bra and was sucking on my big breasts. I really didn't want to have sex in the car but he was getting impatient. He took out his big black cock and I started sucking it. As soon as I got my lips around it I regretted having turned him down so many times the previous months. He blew his load in my mouth and I swallowed it all down.
It was then I noticed the key stuck underneath my windshield wiper. His friend had shown up and left it for us. I was a bit embarrassed realizing that his friend had probably seen me sucking his cock. We finally made it upstairs where I sucked his cock some more. Then he fucked me in my pussy and ass depositing a big load in each before letting me loose. I finally got home about 6AM. I saw him again the next night and the night after that. Within 2 weeks his friend who had the apartment was nailing me too. It was a great introduction to the joys of IR sex. I have loved it ever since.